Family Drama Erupts Over My Dad’s 80th Birthday Bash! 🎂😱

Next week is supposed to be a big celebration—my dad’s 80th birthday. My brother took charge and planned a dinner, inviting his family, mine, and a few others. Everything seemed set until I asked if my partner’s 13-year-old son, who has ADHD, could join us. My brother instantly refused, saying there was no room, even though the restaurant told me it was fine. He even got my mom to back him up, which hurt even more since his own son has ADHD too. I calmly said if my stepson wasn’t welcome, my partner and I wouldn’t go. Suddenly, I’m being called immature and accused of tearing the family apart. My brother started sending nasty messages all week, and now my own son thinks I’m being selfish because of what my brother’s been telling him. Meanwhile, my mom acted like nothing was wrong when we spent time together. I feel completely stuck—torn between standing up for my stepson and trying to keep the peace. Has anyone else been caught in a family mess like this? I’d love to hear your thoughts or advice. 💬 #FamilyDrama #Parenting #BlendedFamily #FamilyRelationships