Torn Between My Partner and Parents - Should I Choose Love or Family? 💔😰

I'm completely stuck and need your advice! 😩 After 10 years with my partner and two beautiful kids together, my parents are asking us to relocate across the country. They've never gotten along with him - honestly, I probably overshared too much about our relationship struggles over the years. 🤦‍♀️ Now my mom is offering free childcare and I've landed a great job, but my partner flat-out refuses to move. He says my parents are trying to break us up, while they think he's emotionally manipulating me. The housing costs alone would be $1,800+ monthly! 💸 Here's the kicker - when I mentioned moving without him, suddenly he's talking marriage after years of avoiding it. My kids are excited about the move, but I feel like I'm being pulled in every direction. How do you choose between the person who's been your rock and the family who raised you? Have you ever been caught in the middle like this? I really need to hear from people who've walked this path. What would you do? 💭 #familydrama #relationships #toughchoices #FamilyRelationships