New Job Offer vs FIRE Goals - I'm So Tempted! 😩

Hey everyone, I'm really struggling here and need your wisdom! 😅 I'm 25, recently married, and have been working my current stable job for about a year. My wife and I are getting serious about FIRE, but I just got offered this amazing position at a startup that comes with all the flashy perks - company Tesla, unlimited expense account, fancy office downtown. The salary bump is tempting too! 💰 But here's the thing - it's way riskier than my current gig, and I know those perks will just inflate our lifestyle. I keep thinking about this couple I met who retired at 45 by staying disciplined with their spending. They drive a modest Honda but have total freedom now. My brain keeps saying "but it's so cool!" while my heart knows the smart choice. How do you resist these golden handcuffs when they're dangling right in front of you? 😭 #careerdecisions #FIREgoals #workplaceadvice #JobCareer