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why scorpios always feel a little... distant

Ever felt like there's always a thin veil between you and your Scorpio friend? That no matter how close you think you are, something's always held back? That’s not your imagination. Scorpios have emotional standards—and not just in romance. They have friendship standards too. They're picky. Intense. And they don’t form bonds unless it feels real. The more stable their life becomes, the fewer people they keep around. A settled Scorpio doesn’t want new circles, new names, new handshakes. Meeting people? Exhausting. Pretending to care? Torture. Because for them, if you're just a buddy for food, drinks, and small talk— then why should they invest their time, their emotions, their loyalty? That’s the veil. That’s the distance. That’s the “I don’t owe you access to my soul” wall. But here's the irony: Gaining their trust? Actually not complicated. You don’t need to sacrifice or prove yourself endlessly. Just make your intentions crystal clear. Let them know: They’re not one of many, they’re the one that matters. You want them there for the real moments—good or bad. And that their presence isn’t optional, it’s essential. That's it. Still, even after all that, you might feel them drift a little. Not because you did something wrong. But because to Scorpio, space is safety. They believe closeness doesn’t require constant presence. They know people are like fragile puzzle pieces—we fit, but sometimes we crack. That’s why they always hold one line no one can cross. A line of self-protection. A boundary against betrayal. You can laugh with them, get on their nerves, even test their patience— but once they sense imbalance, they’ll quietly vanish. No drama. No notice. Just... gone. But if you’re honest with them, if your presence is real— they’ll give you more of their heart than you ever expected. Even if the puzzle breaks one day, they’ll make sure you had all the best pieces while it lasted. #Astrology

9 days ago
Tammie Randall - Payne
I’m a Scorpion and I love these few friends I have. I don’t go out looking for friends and certainly do not care about meeting new people. I am very happy with my own company and definitely need space from friends, family and my husband. When he’s home on the weekends, I feel like Monday will not get here soon enough. I am definitely a home body - which I love and rarely venture out. Other people’s opinions mean nothing to me. I couldn’t care less if anyone comes to my house. I know that seems odd or weird but, that’s how I like it. Quiet, peaceful and NO drama. Other people’s drama makes me crazy and I can’t get away from them fast enough! 🌸
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Michele Cwieka
Typical scorpion here. I agree with my fellow scorpions. We don’t want need or care about drama. U betray us and u r gone. We don’t put up with bs. Love my sign.
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Wilmington, MA
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Michael Embry
I'm a Scorpio and I tell you how I feel and I only ask for the same. I'm not perfect but I try to be real with everyone! I need a friend like a fish that needs a rain coat!
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Kathleen Mcmullen
I find scorpions intelligent beautiful respectful and totally the strongest of the other signs
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Queens, NY
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Donna Wilson
Scorpios are the most loyal people you can find. just don't piss them off!!! that simple!!!!
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Miami, FL
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thebossbeater
here's a question for you scorpions, i have a Scorpio friend , here's the crazy thing, he will not come to my home to hang out. if i dont go to his house i wont see him. can anyone explain?
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Hamilton, NJ
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Tammy Orcutt
I have a Scorpio husband and he’s a very wonderful man. I couldn’t have asked for such a great man. I’m so do happy I have him and love him and he loves me . He makes sure I come first . I love him very much
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Vidalia, LA
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Alonzo Akbar
My motto has always been I don't need new friends if I don't know you already. 🦂🦂🦂
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Pittsburg, CA
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Nettie1
Yes we can be a pain in our ass but I'm PROUD of my SCORPION self!!!!
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Glen Burnie, MD
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Carmen Victoria
Awww someone was hurt by a Scorpio. Cry me a river!… lmao
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Newark, NJ
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