❗ “If You Have to Chase It, It’s Running from You”

You weren’t made to beg for what’s already yours. ⸻ 💭 Ever felt like this? • You’re texting first. • You’re trying harder. • You’re showing up — and they’re showing you how little they care. You’re not crazy. You’re just invested in someone who never planned to stay. ⸻ 📉 Here’s the harsh truth no one preaches: • When you chase what’s fading, you miss what’s forming. • When you force what’s broken, you delay what’s divine. • When you keep them around just to not feel lonely — you end up feeling lonelier with them than without. ⸻ “You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.” — Song of Solomon 4:7 God didn’t create you to beg for half-love. He made you to be seen, chosen, pursued — not tolerated. ⸻ 🧠 Ask yourself: • Do I feel heard in this? • Do I feel seen — or just tolerated? • Am I clinging to potential instead of reality? ⸻ 🛑 Because here’s what most people regret: • Wasting years on “almost relationships” • Ignoring red flags just to feel needed • Holding on to someone God already said “no” to ⸻ 🔥 Let this hit your soul: • You don’t have to chase what’s meant for you. • You don’t have to lose yourself to be loved. • The right person won’t make you feel like you’re asking for too much. You’re not hard to love. You were just asking the wrong person to do it. ⸻ 💬 Community check-in: • Drop a “🛑” in the comments if you’ve ever begged for love you deserved freely. • Comment “I’m done chasing” if you’re finally choosing peace over pressure. • Tag a friend who needs to stop confusing crumbs for commitment. ⸻ #RealLoveDoesntHide #GodsBestOrNothing #NoMoreChasing #FaithfulAndFree #NewsBreakFaith #HealingInProgress #RelationshipRecovery #ChristianGrowth #YouDeserveHappiness