Stacey HartIs peeing outside at a house party normal for GUYS?
The other day, I was hosting a small pre-game gathering (all girls) at my place when a friend's boyfriend and his pal joined us. We were just hanging out in the backyard. After about an hour, one of the guys stood up and ambled towards the bushes in the corner of the yard. He moved off to the side and was fairly distant, but his posture made it pretty clear what he was doing. He relieved himself for roughly a minute, then returned and sat down as if nothing had happened. I was quite taken aback by this. I'd never even met this guy before (and had only met the boyfriend twice), and he hadn't bothered to inquire about where the bathroom was, or if it was even acceptable to urinate in the garden! I certainly would have directed him inside had he simply asked. A bit later, we shifted to the front yard, waiting for our Ubers. The same guy then casually remarked to one of his friend, "I need to piss," before heading directly to some bushes to do his business again. His friend also disappeared into another set of bushes, presumably to do the same. I just didn't get it! Is this considered normal behavior for guys at a casual house party? or is it a bit gross to you guys too?? #ToiletDrama #SocialNorms #AskingForAdvice #HouseParty #GenderDifferences #UnwrittenRules #PersonalSpace #HostDilemma
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Rebecca Farnsworth
You find out that a lot of guys do that. They would rather go out in the bushes than in a house if there is a party. They let the girls have the house
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Westbrook, ME
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Cooper
People these days have no class or sophistication… they’ve never been taught manners or proper etiquette… I can’t tell how many times grown people walk in front on me at the supermarket and never say “excuse me”… am I the only one that was taught that?
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Carl Lenning
Location would probably be a determining factor. In a metro area I would say don’t do it but, out in the country, well that’s a different story.
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Chelsea, AL
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Damian Bristow
Boy by all these comments you can definitely tell the difference between city folk and country folk….😆
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Harrisburg, OR
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Jack
Years ago, our neighbors had twin boys who were free spirited. The boys got into a habit for a while where they would openly pee on their front lawn. When the father saw them do that, he told them to "never do that again." Then he further told them, "If you need to pee, go behind a bush!" LOL
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Chicago, IL
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samthepitbull
I mean, was this in the city or the country? I live on 200 acres and sometimes I will go outside to pee instead of the bathroom. in your garden tho? nah.
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Stephenville, TX
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Hunter Bidens Laptop
Men have been pissing outside for a hundred thousand years. Where have you been?
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Seattle, WA
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Dana Leared Koy
It's way too gross for me! After the first time I would have told him "if you gotta pee again got inside to the bathroom! That's totally unacceptable! 😲
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Clyde, TX
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Brother and sons
At least they didn’t ask to use the bathroom with your daughter and also yes us country folk who have septic systems reserve the indoor restrooms for the women folk if you only have to piss that saves flushing 2 gallons of water into your septic tank every time you pee it’s a natural thing to do when you are in the country besides every single time I have to use the restroom in the city trying to find a place to go to the bathroom is impossible unless you are a customer so I have started using a Gatorade bottle while I’m out and about because I’m not going to fight the whole finding somewhere to use the bathroom because when I have to go I don’t have time for a song and dance I don’t want to leave a puddle at the counter while being refused use of the restroom for employees only
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Morristown, AZ
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bigSPOON
😆😆😆 don't drive past my house 5-6 am. If you don't want to see me watering my grass don't look in my yard.(or down into my car on a long trip)
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