Everyone has their opinion, and everyone is entitled to their opinions. We are not right we are not wrong. We are expressing our opinions. I’m sure these parents are saying if I would’ve done this if I would’ve done that, they have learned the ultimate lesson by losing the precious child For the rest of their lives. They will carry this burden. I work in a hospital with children and yes, I have seen children come in some near drowning some drown have severe brain damage will never be the same again, but his medical personnel we save a child because that’s what we’re supposed to do With the pain on that. Parent is still deep and forever will be. It will break up marriages it can cause suicide so I offer my prayers to this family for total comfort during this horrible time in their lives for their family and friends and for all of us who have gone through this or have not experienced it