I am both, yell and scream, then quiet a reserved. when tears start coming out, somebody is going to get hurt if they dont leave. When my son was murdered, I yelled and screamed, gathered myself and got clinical said what needed to be said. i left the hospital so his sisters could wait for the last one. I told them all that when she was done I wanted him unhooked. At the memorial, I was assumed to be cold and unfeeling, because I refer to keep emotions to myself. Virgo's are accused of a lot of things we are not.