Why is it that when someone has dementia, everyone obsesses over whether they remember you, but never asks if they're still kind? The convo between Courtney Martin and Lynn Casteel Harper totally flips the script on how we talk about memory loss. Is our culture too fixated on identity and memory, ignoring the deeper stuff like compassion? This debate is getting heated in the fandom—should we be asking different questions about what makes someone 'still themselves'? #Entertainment #Books #dementia