i did, for many years. why? you may ask. well, for one, there was no way i was going to pay her alimony. to heck with that, or child support. heck no. then she got breast cancer. i decided i'd stay until she was done with treatments, then leave. i wasnt going to leave while she was going thru that. it would have made me look really bad. cant have that. but she got worse, then died, and now im free and living life. if she hadn't gotten sick i would have left sooner. its not worth it. your personal peace and health are more valuable than an angry evil vengefull narcisstic lying passive agressive woman.