Would You Go No Contact with Your Mom?

I did. Because I had to for my own mental health.

I haven't spoke 2 my mother in over 4 years. don't miss her bitterness n coldness or her anger at all. most peaceful decision I ever made.

already have

I was lucky that I had the best ever. My MIL was horrible. When my dad died I asked MIL to watch my son. She said I don't babysit my grandchildren. I was stunned. I said a few choice words that I can't repeat here. After she did that I didn't see her again. My husband could take my sons to go see her but I refused to go. Even when couldn't have cared . The only reason I went is for my husband and sons. I didn't shed a tear. A year later my friend mom died I cried for 3 days .

I had to because it was detrimental to my health.

Yep.

I had to..she was killing me mentally I ask her once why she couldn't be happy for me..she said she didnt know. I didnt go to her funeral and I continue to wonder why she didnt like me..I was her 1st baby..guess something didnt click. im better off

Absolutely not! She was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer, given 6 months. Moved in with her the last 4 months of her life to care for her. We got along better than ever before.

In order to break three generations of abuse and indifference it was medically necessary to separate myself and my children from my mother.

I am now and will never talk to her again