My friend Sarah got married and happily opened a joint account. A year later, she realized her husband tracked every coffee she bought, every dollar she spent. Arguments started over the smallest things. She told me it felt less like a partnership and more like being monitored. Meanwhile, another couple I know says joint accounts saved their marriage—they finally stopped fighting about “who paid for what.” Sarah just sits at night, feeling like she has no private space at all. #Life #Marriage #Money