My ex tried to pull that on our son even though she never worked or did anything to make her life better she had problems with drugs a child should never be put in the position to care for their parents and parents know better than to guilt their kids that way That's just being chickenshit my son did good for himself he's raising a family he's doing the right thing my life took a work injury and well things aren't so good but I get bye it's not my son's job to raise me it's my job to be there for my son when he needs me it's about our kids not our selfish needs or wants .