Hey boo, First things first… take a deep breath. Everything is gonna be okay — and yes, God got you, even when it feels messy and confusing. I’m gonna be real with you because I care about your heart. What you’re feeling isn’t crazy. When someone gives you attention, consistency, and vulnerability, feelings can grow — even when the situation is off limits. That doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you human. But here’s the part I need you to sit with: If someone is engaged, sharing a life, and raising kids with someone else, their confusion will eventually become your pain. A man on the low is still on the low — and secrecy always comes with a cost. You deserve to be chosen out loud, not hidden. You deserve peace, not wondering where you stand or when the phone will go quiet. And if he really wanted something different, his actions would match his words — publicly, clearly, and without excuses. So my advice, boo? Protect your heart. Step back long enough to hear God clearly, not through emotions, but through peace. What’s meant for you won’t require sneaking, waiting, or shrinking yourself. You’re not wrong for caring — but don’t confuse attention with alignment. I’m rooting for you. Always. And no matter how this turns out, remember: you are worthy of love that doesn’t have to hide. 💖 — Tatiana J Have you ever been someone’s secret… or stayed longer than you knew you should? What would you tell her? 💌 Got a question or need advice? Send your letters to shesthehalo@gmail.com All letters are confidential and anonymous if shared. Your sister is here for you 🤍 God got you.