Menopause is real. Learn more about it. It's more than hot flashes, it's mood swings, depression, joint pain, frozen shoulder, low libido, weight gain, hair loss, brain fog, forgetfulness. Those are just the basic symptoms. It's actually worse than that.. so if you're a woman wondering what's going on with you that's probably what it is if you are pushing 40 and if you're a man with a woman, wonder why she changed that might be the case educate yourself and learn so you know how to deal with it