I get the point you’re making—there’s real emphasis there on surrender and trusting God fully instead of trying to carry everything in your own strength. But I think the reality for a lot of people is less like a clean “let go or fall” moment and more like a slow learning process. Faith isn’t always instant release—it’s often messy, human, and uneven. Some days people trust deeply, and other days they’re still gripping tightly to what hurts because it’s what they know. The tug-of-war image is strong, but it can make it sound like God steps back the moment we struggle. A lot of believers would describe it differently—not as God letting go, but as Him still being present even when we’re exhausted, confused, or not holding on perfectly. Maybe it’s not about winning or losing the pull, but about learning over time that you’re not carrying it alone—even when your grip slips.