When people are in a bad relationship, do they stay because they truly love that person or because they don’t know how to get out? Be careful about getting into a relationship because it’s so much easier to get into a relationship to get out sometime.. you really never know a person like you may think you do. Background checks never hurt before you get into a relationship and when you have kids to consider whether or not you go ahead with a relationship at least listen to them. Make sure you know the pros and cons ,love can make a person stupid. Try to be smart. Try to know what you are getting into . Some people seem really sweet but have a agendas or silently change . Sometimes the sweetest people are the ones you might not can trust.Remember the Trojan horse was a gift. Especially be careful when you put your finances together and lose your financial independence. And be careful with your kids. Because it’s their life to that will be changed.