When my brother passed away, I was sent a text message to go home not to stay the night. I didn’t read the message until the next morning. No one else was staying the night, it would not have mattered  if I had read the message earlier, I see today was my brother .but as I think back to the moment, I know how Mary felt ,she stayed .for me it caused hurt feelings, anger, family issues with that part of my family, and it was during the loss of the last of all my family yeah everyone grieves differently I could not have left him by his self. I stayed and played music. That means something to for him, I have to sand all night leave my head on in his bed to close my eyes , whispered I love you and say goodbye ,ignoring his wife and his daughter wishes as I was told for him to get his rest for his eternal rest, but I didn’t read the text message that night. I read it the next morning and I would have stayed regardless. I would not leave my brother on his last night of living alone. and I think back about Mary and how she must have received the same response to her , but she stayed and I stayed , it was what my heart told me to do and I’m sure it’s what her heart told her to do.