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#AgingGracefully
Bethany Cameron

Women’s faces hit a landslide at 45

It’s like we woke up one day and everything was different. Just a couple of years ago, our skin was holding up pretty well — now, at 45, we barely recognize our reflection. Suddenly, there’s this deep-set fatigue in our faces, and the dark creases near our mouths aren’t shadows — they’re actual discoloration. I suspect hormones are involved, since this all seemed to appear right alongside other lovely signs of perimenopause. I’ve recently started on estradiol and progesterone, and while it’s only been about a month, I’m cautiously hopeful it might help things stabilize over time. Still, I can’t help but wonder: has anyone else experienced something similar around this age? Did anything help — topically or otherwise? Or maybe I just care too much about how I look? I’m open to any advice, experiences, or even just solidarity. 😮‍💨 #SkinOver40 #MidlifeShift #RealTalk #AgingGracefully #HonestBeauty #Skincare

Women’s faces hit a landslide at 45
rogerwilliams

A guy in his 40s, coming to terms with gravity 🌬️

Hitting my mid-40s has been humbling. I always liked how I looked. My 30s were great — sure, I had some wrinkles, but they felt earned, like smile lines from a good life. I never obsessed over my face. But this? No one warns you about this. People always talk about puberty, but no one says your early 40s might be the next big shift. One day, I caught a candid photo of myself and my brain almost short-circuited. My eyes looked droopy, my face seemed to be slowly giving in to gravity. My once-soft nasal lines are now deep folds. Everything just… shifted. If I were settled down, maybe I’d take all this aging stuff in stride. But dating at this age? You really feel the pressure to look your best. I thought aging would just be about gaining a few more wrinkles — not watching the architecture of my face melt. Not really looking for advice. Just needed to put it out there. It’s a weird adjustment, and I know I’m not the only one feeling this. And yes I’m a guy. A straight one at that. I just happen to care about my face, my skin, and how I age. Apparently, that still surprises people. Anyway, if you're a guy out there noticing your face doing strange new things — you're not alone. And if you're not there yet… just wait. It’s coming. 😑🤦 #AgingGracefully #MensSkincareJourney #MidlifeShift #SkincareForMen #FaceReality

A guy in his 40s, coming to terms with gravity 🌬️
bmatthews

Whispers of Two Decades: A Journey Nearing Forty 🍂

As I draw closer to forty, the echoes of twenty years past feel startlingly near. Memories from the mid-to-late 2000s emerge with a vivid clarity, as if etched just moments ago—the faces, the laughter, all remain so sharply in focus. And yet, mentally, the years seem to have tiptoed by, leaving surprisingly few marks. While the body might whisper tales of time, the spirit often feels much the same. I recall, in my younger days, viewing those around forty as distinctly "old"—not ancient, perhaps, but certainly from a different era, with little common ground. Now, as that milestone approaches, my peers feel anything but old. If anything, life has deepened, grown richer; there's a newfound freedom in caring less about outside gazes, a blossoming of open-mindedness. The concerts, the social currents—they still draw me in with the same vigor as two decades prior. The true "old" now seems to reside in the realm of 60 and beyond, an age I once imagined belonging solely to grandparents. It feels like a lifetime away, yet here we stand, acutely aware of time's accelerating pace. One can't help but wonder, is this the prelude to a midlife contemplation? #LifeReflections #PassageOfTime #AgingGracefully #MidlifeMusings #Nostalgia #HumanExperience #FeelingOld #PersonalJourney

Whispers of Two Decades: A Journey Nearing Forty 🍂