He’s My Boyfriend, Not My Son’s Stepdad! 😤💔
Four years together, and I still feel like a single mom. My boyfriend, who claims he loves me, always has a reason to disappear when my son is home. My son has autism, is nonverbal, and has ADHD—yes, it’s tough, but isn’t partnership about facing the hard stuff together? The moment my son goes to my parents’ place, my boyfriend suddenly has endless time for date nights and Netflix. Last Saturday, I finally snapped and asked, “Why do you only show up when things are easy?” He denied avoiding my son, but my gut screams otherwise. Am I wrong for wanting a real teammate, not just a part-time visitor? How do I get him to step up, or am I just fooling myself? I’m exhausted from carrying this alone. If you were me, what would you do? 😔
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