When a Bachelorette Trip Ends a Friendship
I planned a 4-day bachelorette trip for one of my closest friends. She picked the destination and style — chill, low-key, minimal drinking. I covered the costs up front, and everyone paid me back slowly over months.
But the first red flag came on night two. Suddenly, she wanted a wild night out and pressured all of us to drink — even though she knows I’ve quit for a year. Her comments were hurtful: mocking people’s finances, implying I was uptight, FaceTiming her fiancé to call us “shitty,” and slamming things around the room when we got home.
The next morning, she trashed her food and stormed off because we didn’t eat exactly where she wanted. The rest of the trip was more of the same — guilt-tripping, insults, and weird “punishments.”
Since coming home, she’s tried to rope me into more plans — expecting me to cancel family trips or drive bridesmaids hours away. I said no.
Now I’m realizing… I don’t think this is someone I want in my life anymore. Not after how little she respected our friendship.
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