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#CareerBurnout
WandringWolverine

Finance Pro in NYC: Burnt Out, Trapped by High Salary! 😩💸

I'm in my early 30s, working a high-pressure finance job in New York City. The pay is incredible—around $300k a year—but the stress is relentless. Most nights, I'm still at my desk past 3 AM, and honestly, I burned out a long time ago. My mental health is suffering, but every time I think about quitting, I worry it’ll ruin my dream of retiring by 45. I’ve saved up about $950k in investments and have $250k equity in two rental properties. I’m maxing out my 401k, doing a backdoor Roth, and saving about $8k a month. Other than the mortgages on my rentals, I have no debt and live pretty frugally. But I feel completely stuck—golden handcuffed to this job. Has anyone else been in this situation? Is it possible to switch to a lower-paying, less stressful job and still watch my net worth grow? I’d really appreciate any advice or experiences you can share. 🙏 #CareerBurnout #FinanceLife #WorkLifeBalance #JobCareer

Finance Pro in NYC: Burnt Out, Trapped by High Salary! 😩💸
CherryChase

Grinding for Success or Just Grinding Myself Down?

Ever feel like you’re sprinting on a treadmill that never stops? That’s been my life for the past 12 years. I’m 29, sitting on a $350k net worth, and making $120k a year, but honestly, work is draining the life out of me. I hustled through college, worked nonstop, and even got my Master’s early—just to end up feeling like I’m still not doing enough. I’ve been investing like crazy—nearly $50k a year—thanks to living with my parents. But the thought of moving out and buying my own place? Terrifying. I’m exhausted, anxious, and wondering if I can really keep grinding for another decade. Have I sacrificed too much for financial security? Is there even a way to hit pause without losing everything I’ve worked for? I’m reaching out because I’m stuck and could really use some advice. How do you keep going when burnout feels like your only coworker? 😩🏃‍♂️ #CareerBurnout #FinancialPressure #WorkLifeBalance #JobCareer

Grinding for Success or Just Grinding Myself Down?
IonIbis

Is It Just Me, or Is Work Just... Too Much? 😩

I've only been working full-time for five years, but honestly, I already feel like I'm running on empty. My job lets me work from home, my bills are paid, and I even managed a two-week trip abroad recently. On paper, it sounds pretty great, right? But every day, I catch myself daydreaming about quitting and living off passive income, just so I can finally do what I actually enjoy. What really confuses me is that my parents have worked for decades without ever complaining this much. They just get on with it, while I feel completely drained and unmotivated—even though I spent years and thousands of dollars on a master’s degree for this exact career. I don’t even have the energy to chase a higher salary or a new job. Is anyone else stuck in a "good" situation but still hates working? I’d really love to hear how others deal with this kind of burnout. 😕 #CareerBurnout #WorkLifeStruggles #SeekingAdvice #JobCareer

Is It Just Me, or Is Work Just... Too Much? 😩
LyricalLotus

Is My Engineering Career Worth the Stress?

I’m a female engineer working at a top biotech company, and honestly, I’m exhausted. On paper, it’s the dream job—great pay, stability, endless opportunities. But why does it feel like this career is slowly draining the life out of me? Every promotion just means more stress, more responsibility, and less time for myself or my family. I’m constantly on call, always the one to blame when something breaks, and the pressure never lets up. Sometimes I wonder if all this money is really worth the energy I’m losing. Have any of you felt this way? Should I try switching companies, or maybe even industries? Or is it time to consider a completely different path? I’d love to hear your advice—because right now, I feel like I’m running on empty. 😩 #EngineeringLife #CareerBurnout #WorkplaceStress #JobCareer

Is My Engineering Career Worth the Stress?
CrimsonWander

When Is a Paycheck Just Not Worth It Anymore?

I used to think a bigger paycheck would solve all my problems, but here I am, a project manager at a tech firm, dreading every Monday. The salary is decent, but the constant emails at midnight, the endless meetings that go nowhere, and the pressure to always be 'on'—it's exhausting. My weekends have become just recovery time, not real rest. Sometimes I wonder, is it normal to feel this drained for a job that pays well? Or am I just not cut out for this grind? I keep asking myself: At what point does the money stop making up for the stress? Have any of you been in this spot? How did you know it was time to walk away? I’d really appreciate your advice because I’m honestly at a loss. 😩 #CareerBurnout #WorkLifeBalance #JobStress #JobCareer

When Is a Paycheck Just Not Worth It Anymore?
PhantomFeline

Saving Fast, Burning Out Faster: Can I Survive Two More Years?

I’m 41, and on paper, things look great—$1.75M net worth, making more than ever, and just two years away from my financial independence goal. But here’s the catch: the harder I work, the more I feel like I’m losing myself. My performance is slipping, and I’m terrified someone will notice I’m not keeping up with the workaholics around me. Imposter syndrome is my constant companion, and every day feels like a struggle to fit into a tech culture that never really felt like home. I grew up poor, so the fear of losing everything keeps me glued to this high-paying job, even as burnout creeps in faster than my savings grow. Should I tough it out for two more years, or risk it all for a much-needed break and a shot at my passion project? If you’ve been here, I’d love to hear how you made it through. I’m honestly at a loss and could use some real advice. 😔 #CareerBurnout #FinancialIndependence #WorkplaceStruggles #JobCareer

Saving Fast, Burning Out Faster: Can I Survive Two More Years?
EchoChaser

Is $2.5 Million Enough to Escape the IT Grind?

My husband and I are both 56, and lately, the thought of early retirement has been haunting me—especially after our recent trip to Portugal. The sun, the food, the freedom! But back home, I'm stuck in IT, feeling more burned out than ever. My husband left his job last year and may never go back, and honestly, I envy him. We’ve got about $2.5 million invested, not counting our paid-off house. But is that really enough for a 30-year retirement? Healthcare costs before Medicare kick in are a huge worry. And if I step away from IT now, there’s no coming back—the industry moves too fast, and I’d be left behind. How do you ever feel sure you have enough? Am I just dreaming, or is it time to leap? I’d love to hear how others have made this decision. Please, tell me I’m not alone in this anxiety! 😩🏖️ #RetirementPlanning #CareerBurnout #FinancialFreedom #JobCareer

Is $2.5 Million Enough to Escape the IT Grind?
MindfulMarauder

Is My Dream Retirement Too Boring for the Modern World? 😅

Lately, I can’t help but wonder if my vision for early retirement is just too... ordinary. Everyone around me seems to have these wild plans—traveling the world, skydiving, chasing thrills. Meanwhile, all I want is to hit the gym, pick out fresh veggies, and cook a nice meal at home. Is that really so odd? Work is a constant adrenaline rush, and honestly, I’m exhausted. I fantasize about a future where my biggest adventure is learning a new recipe or maybe picking up a simple craft (if my attention span allows). With four kids and a busy life, I crave peace, not excitement. But sometimes I worry—will I regret not wanting more? Am I missing out? If anyone else out there dreams of a quiet, routine-filled future, please tell me I’m not alone! How do you deal with the pressure to want more? 🤔🏡 #CareerBurnout #RetirementDreams #WorkLifeBalance #JobCareer

Is My Dream Retirement Too Boring for the Modern World? 😅
UtopiaUnicorn

Did I Accidentally FIRE My Way Out of Burnout?

All my life, I’ve been the queen of frugality—clipping coupons, skipping lattes, and stashing away every extra dollar. I never really understood investing, but my coworkers kept nudging me to put money in my 401k, so I just picked a few random funds and forgot about it. Fast forward to now: I’m 34, totally burned out at my job, and the thought of quitting without a backup plan is both terrifying and oddly tempting. I finally sat down to look at my finances, and—surprise!—I’ve managed to save $1.25 million, mostly by accident. My annual spending is about $45k, and my investments are all over the place. But here’s the thing: I’m exhausted, unsure about my next move, and feeling lost. Has anyone else stumbled into FIRE without meaning to? How do you handle the fear of leaving a stressful job when you don’t have everything figured out? I’d love to hear your advice. 😅 #FIREJourney #CareerBurnout #WorkplaceStress #JobCareer

Did I Accidentally FIRE My Way Out of Burnout?