Matched With My Husband On Tinder. WTF Now?
Big time throwaway because, honestly, I’m freaking out and can’t tell anyone IRL.
So, my husband and I? Not open. Not poly. Not even a little bit. We met on Tinder three years ago, did the whole whirlwind romance, and now we’re married. Supposedly happy.
But last month, he went on a work trip, and I got weirdly lonely. I downloaded Tinder. Didn’t plan to cheat or anything, just… I don’t know. Nostalgia? Ego boost? Whatever. Swiped a bit, deleted it, felt dumb.
He leaves again this week. I redownload Tinder (don’t judge me, I’m spiraling). Swiping, swiping… and then HIS FACE pops up. Like, my actual husband. I thought maybe it was a catfish, but nope—his profile is updated, it’s him. Even a pic I took of him.
I swiped right. We matched.
He’s home tomorrow. Do I confess? Does he confess? Are we both just lonely idiots? My brain is melting.
TL;DR: Matched with my own husband on Tinder. Is this marriage limbo?
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