21st Birthday in Chicago or Boyfriend’s Trust Issues? 🎉🙄
So here’s the deal: I’ve been with my boyfriend for five months, and he’s got some serious trust baggage from his past. My best friend is turning 21 and wants to celebrate in Chicago with me. I want to be there for her, just like she was for me. But my boyfriend? He flat-out says, “You aren’t going.” No discussion, no compromise, just a hard no. I’ve offered to FaceTime him every night, keep him updated, everything. Still, he won’t budge.
Last night, it blew up. I tried to explain how much this trip means to me, but he just shut down, accusing me of not caring about his feelings. I felt so angry and helpless—why can’t he trust me? Am I wrong for wanting to go? Or should I just give in for the sake of our relationship?
Honestly, I’m torn. What would you do if you were in my shoes? I need some real advice, because right now, I feel like I’m losing myself just to keep the peace. 😤💔
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