Single dad and I think I have to dump my girlfriend.
For two years, I dated an incredible woman. She’s brilliant, beautiful, and full of life — the full package. Except for one thing: she never wanted kids. And I have an 8-year-old son.
We broke up once because she didn’t want to live with my boy. After therapy, she came back saying she was ready to be part of our little team. We even took a family trip. My son was amazing, doing everything you’d hope for from an 8-year-old. Yet, afterward, she admitted she almost lost it over something as small as swim trunks left in the shower.
She didn’t want him around for the Super Bowl. She complained that my responsibilities to my son kept her from living freely. Then, she even hinted that if I gave up custody, our relationship would be easier.
I realized — no matter how perfect someone seems, if they can’t love my child, they can’t be my person. It hurts, but my path is clear.
Have you ever had to choose between love and family? I’d love to hear your story in the comments.
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