How I Speak Up When Someone Offends Me 😅
Ever been caught off guard by something someone said? 🙈 Yeah, me too. It’s awkward, but I’ve learned how to handle it without making things worse. Here’s what works for me:
• I ask them to repeat what they said—sometimes just hearing it again makes them rethink it!
• If it’s a weird word or phrase, I’ll ask, “What did you mean by that?”
• I try to stay chill and say, “I’m sure you didn’t mean harm, but…”
• If I’m really uncomfortable, I’ll set a boundary: “I can’t keep talking if that language keeps coming up.”
• When I need to, I just don’t respond—silence can say a lot.
• I always use “I” statements, like “I felt hurt when you said that.”
Staying calm is KEY. I remind myself: I’m sharing how I feel, not starting a fight. Sometimes, people don’t even realize they’ve crossed a line. ❤️
How do you handle these moments?
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