is it possible to win her heart back after messing up big time?
Last year, I totally blew it with my girlfriend. I forgot our anniversary, got too caught up with work, and took her for granted. She was hurt, and I could see the spark fading. I panicked. I wanted her to look at me the way she used to—like I was her favorite person in the world.
So, I started doing small things. I left her notes in her bag, made her coffee in the morning, and actually listened when she talked about her day. We started going on walks again, just like when we first met. I even learned to cook her favorite pasta (after three hilarious fails). The more I showed up for her, the more she opened up. We laughed more, argued less, and I realized that love isn’t about grand gestures—it’s about showing up, every single day.
If you’ve messed up, don’t just say sorry. Show her you care in the little moments. Be patient. Be real. And never underestimate the power of a surprise pizza night.
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