VelvetVoyager+FollowI Wasted 25 Years Married to a Man Who Never Said 'I Love You' ππ’I married my husband when I was 25 and he was 36 - he'd lived with his parents his whole life and only had one serious girlfriend before me. Looking back, maybe I should have seen the red flags, but I was young and naive. π Our marriage was like living with a roommate who happened to share my last name. He never hugged me, never kissed me, never once told me he loved me in 25 years! π He was obsessed with trains and buses, writing down numbers and taking endless photos. Any disruption to his routine would send him into a fit. He was socially awkward, even with me - we'd sit in complete silence during dinner dates. I finally realized I was living a lie and filed for divorce in 2020. Now I wonder - was he on the autism spectrum, or just emotionally cold? Either way, I feel like I wasted the best years of my life. π’ Have any of you experienced something similar? I'd love to hear your stories. #DeadMarriage #AutismInMarriage #EmotionalNeglect #FamilyRelationships7246Share
Jennifer Vargas+Follow8 Odd Habits Linked to Emotional NeglectEver wonder why you always apologize, dodge compliments, or feel weird just relaxing? Turns out, these quirky habits might actually be leftovers from emotional neglect. If you grew up feeling unseen or unheard, you might crave validation, over-explain yourself, or avoid asking for help (even when you need it). The wildest part? Realizing these patterns is the first step to breaking them. Healing starts with noticingβand giving yourself permission to do things differently. Anyone else see themselves in this list? #MentalHealth #EmotionalNeglect #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #Relatable #Health17129Share