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A Dad Jumped Over A Pool Fence With A Broken Arm To Save His Child

The memory is so clear it still gives me a chill. I was maybe 5 or 6, a little kid without my floaties, and one second I was there, the next I was in the water. My dad was sitting in his chair a dozen yards away. He had a cast on his arm from a fall and fractured ribs that made every movement a jolt of pain. He was even on pain meds. But he saw it all happen. He shot out of his seat. Flew down the back porch stairs in three bounds. And with a shattered arm and broken ribs he vaulted the pool fence in a single leap. The other adults at the party barely had time to turn their heads before he was already in the water and had me in his arms. He saved my life and he did it in a blaze of pure adrenaline. If that is not what a hero looks like, I do not know what is. #FamilyStories #FamilyRelationships #FamilyFirst #HeroDad #Parenting #TrueStory #ChildhoodMemories #SuperDad #Fatherhood #ParentalLove #LifeLesson #Family

A Dad Jumped Over A Pool Fence With A Broken Arm To Save His Child
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As a tail gunner on a TBF Avenger during WWII, my dad's 3 brushes with death

Three stories from one man -- three brushes with death. Here’s what happened. *** I’ll never forget from my dad, who served as a tail gunner on a TBF Avenger flying off the escort carrier USS Block Island during WWII. 🍂 The Sub, the Dive, and the Propeller On a mission near Gibraltar, his crew caught a German sub on the surface. As they dove in, my dad manned his twin 30 cals while the pilot opened fire. He watched crewmen on the U-boat scramble for their deck gun. Then came the return fire. A puff of smoke from the sub’s cannon—and suddenly, the plane shook violently. Somehow, they limped back to the carrier. When they got out, both swore the plane had taken a direct hit, but after checking top to bottom… no damage. Until the pilot pointed up at the propeller. A perfect half-moon chunk had been taken out. An inch or two in the wrong direction, and they might not have made it back. 🍂 The Rocket Mishap The Block Island was one of the first carriers to deploy anti-submarine rockets. One day, a mechanic was testing the system. The tail of the TBF was propped slightly higher than usual. He disconnected the rockets from one wing, connected the test system… and hit the button. Whoosh. A live rocket from the other wing launched straight into the carrier deck. The deck officer ran toward it, probably thinking he’d just yank it out. My dad saw this and decked him flat. A split-second later, someone threw a bucket of water on the still-glowing rocket, and steam shot 18 feet in the air. No one ever mentioned the incident again—except the mechanic. He got formally reprimanded. 🍂 The Mission That Never Returned One day before a flight, another gunner asked to swap places because he needed the hours for flight pay. My dad agreed. That plane never came back. PS: My dad's ship—the USS Block Island—was the only American aircraft carrier sunk in the Atlantic during WWII. #MilitaryLife #WWIIHistory #VeteranStories #MilitaryDad #FamilyStories #Fatherhood #FamilyFirst

As a tail gunner on a TBF Avenger during WWII, my dad's 3 brushes with death
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When Dad Feels Invisible: Navigating Subtle Sexism in Parenting Spaces

Ever notice how, as a dad, you sometimes get treated like an outsider in parenting spaces? I’ve lost count of the times doctors, nurses, or daycare staff have directed all the important questions to my wife—even when I’m the one holding our child or answering their questions. It’s a quiet kind of sexism that can make you feel invisible, like your role as a parent is somehow less valid. I’ve even had other moms at the playground assume I’m just babysitting, not actually parenting. It stings, but I try to show up, stay involved, and prove by example that dads are just as much parents as moms. Have you ever felt sidelined as a dad? Share your stories below—I’d love to hear how you handle it! #DadLife #ParentingJourney #Fatherhood #BreakingStereotypes #FamilyEquality #Parenting

When Dad Feels Invisible: Navigating Subtle Sexism in Parenting Spaces
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Why Is Talking to My Dad Harder Than Calculus?

You ever feel like talking to your dad is more complicated than assembling IKEA furniture? Yeah, me too. For years, my dad and I barely spoke—awkward silences, missed birthdays, and a lot of unsaid stuff. I used to wonder if reaching out was even worth it. But one day, I just called him. No big speech, just a simple, "Hey Dad, it’s me. Want to grab coffee?" I was terrified, but it broke the ice. We didn’t solve world peace, but we did talk about baseball and old TV shows. I stopped expecting him to be the perfect dad and started seeing him as a regular, flawed human. Turns out, that’s all he ever was. Forgiveness? Still working on it. But at least now, we’re both trying. Maybe that’s enough. 🤷‍♂️☕️ #FamilyMatters #Fatherhood #Forgiveness #Reconnect #FamilyRelationships

Why Is Talking to My Dad Harder Than Calculus?