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Feeling the Love & Facing Bills: Cancer in May

Hey Cancer fam! May 2025 is bringing all the feels—your friends are showing up for you big time, and you’re surrounded by love and support. If you’re looking to expand your circle, now’s the perfect time to join a club or attend a local event. Get social, whether it’s for fun or work! But heads up: your wallet might feel the heat this month. Mars is speeding through your income zone, making expenses pile up fast. Plus, Pluto’s in the mix, possibly bringing an unexpected bill (think taxes or repairs). If you got some financial news around April 26-27, it’s time to tackle it head-on. Stay calm, get practical, and know you’ve got this. New moons mean new beginnings—use logic, not stress, to sort things out. How are you handling May’s money moves? Let’s chat! #CancerHoroscope #Astrology #May2025 #Zodiac #MoneyMatters #Friendship #SusanMiller #Spirituality

Feeling the Love & Facing Bills: Cancer in MayFeeling the Love & Facing Bills: Cancer in May
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Is It Pointless to Talk to Friends About Problems?​

Last weekend, I caught up with a friend I hadn’t seen in a while. I asked how he was doing and if he had any close friends to confide in. Surprisingly, he said talking to friends about problems is pointless. He has “functional” friends—people he shares activities with—but no close friends. He prefers to talk to a therapist when he needs to unload. He believes discussing his issues with friends would only burden them. I couldn’t disagree more. I feel such connections are vital. I “need” close friends for emotional support and exchanging ideas. Plus, therapists aren’t available for a spontaneous chat at, say, 7 PM on a Wednesday evening. How about you? Do you think talking to friends about problems is beneficial, or do you prefer other avenues? #Friendship #MentalHealth #Therapy #EmotionalSupport #CloseFriendships

Is It Pointless to Talk to Friends About Problems?​
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Beware of Those Who Only Seek You Out When Sad​

Have you ever noticed someone who only reaches out to you when they're feeling down? They might pour out their life story to you, even if you barely know each other. This kind of behavior can be a red flag. Such individuals often see you as a tool rather than a true friend. They value your ability to listen, your capacity to offer strategies, and your emotional support. But when they're not in distress, they don't give you a second thought. Your kindness and willingness to help might be taken for granted, reducing you to an emotional dumpster or an on-call servant. It's important to recognize this dynamic and set boundaries. Remember, a real friend values your presence in both good times and bad. Don't let your generosity be exploited. #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalSupport #Boundaries #Friendship #SelfCare

Beware of Those Who Only Seek You Out When Sad​
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Is true friendship truly rare?​

Growing up, I always believed that I’d experience at least one meaningful friendship in my life—a bond where I could truly connect with someone without fear of betrayal. This belief was fueled by media portrayals, which I now realize were naive. As an adult, I’ve tried to open up and nurture several “friendships,” but none have lasted. Sometimes I wonder if it’s my fault—I wasn’t exactly the social butterfly in kindergarten or school. Maybe it’s too late now. So, is true friendship rare, or is it just impossible for someone like me? I’m starting to think that while friendship might not be rare in general, it could be unattainable for people like me who struggle with social connections. What do you think? Have you found lasting friendships, or do you find them hard to come by too? Let’s discuss! 👇 #Friendship #SocialStruggles #TrueConnection #Loneliness #Adulting

Is true friendship truly rare?​
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High - Maintenance friendships: The key to true connection​

Many say “low - maintenance” friendships are ideal. I disagree. “High - maintenance” friendships are where it’s at. When both people actively engage in each other’s lives, that’s when friendships shine. It’s not about one person doing all the work. Both should initiate conversations and gatherings without feeling overburdened. Regular communication and get - togethers keep the bond strong and deepen the connection. Life gets busy, but that’s no excuse to neglect friends. If you can reach out to your partner, you can do the same for friends. Communication is vital for both friendships and romantic relationships. If someone only shows up every 3 - 6 months, how can they be part of your life? That’s a “catch - up” friend, not a true companion. #Friendship #HighMaintenanceFriendship #ActiveParticipation #Communication #TrueConnection

High - Maintenance friendships: The key to true connection​
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Why I ended my friendship with my best friend​

Ending a friendship with my best friend was one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever made. It wasn’t a sudden choice—it was a culmination of several issues that made me realize our bond wasn’t as strong as I thought. One major factor was the imbalance in emotional support. I felt like I was always the one giving, listening, and being there for them, while they rarely reciprocated. It became exhausting and made me question the authenticity of our friendship. Another issue was a misunderstanding about money. While it wasn’t a huge amount, it created tension and revealed underlying trust issues that we couldn’t seem to resolve. But the final straw was realizing that they didn’t see me as an irreplaceable, important part of their life. When I needed them most, they weren’t there, and it hurt deeply. Sometimes, you have to let go to protect your own emotional well-being. It’s painful, but sometimes necessary. #Friendship #EndingFriendship #EmotionalSupport #TrustIssues #SelfCare

Why I ended my friendship with my best friend​
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Evolving views on friendship with age​​

As I’ve aged, my outlook on friendships has transformed. True friends are rare gems, hard to come by. I’ve realized that friendships often come in phases, aligning with specific periods of our lives. Rather than focusing on the quantity of friends, I now cherish the quality of those relationships. It’s not about how many friends you have, but how deeply connected you are to them. What truly matters is the strength of the bond—friends who stand by you through time, distance, and trivial matters. These are the friendships that endure and hold real value. I’ve learned to appreciate the few genuine connections I have, understanding that they’re more precious than a large circle of acquaintances. #Friendship #QualityOverQuantity #TimelessBonds #LifePhases #TrueFriends

Evolving views on friendship with age​​
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Signs it might be time to end a friendship​

Friendships are meant to uplift and support us, but sometimes they can become draining or toxic. If you’re unsure whether to mend or end a friendship, here are some signs it might be time to move on: ​​Constant Negativity​​: If your friend constantly criticizes or brings you down, it’s time to reassess. ​​Lack of Support​​: A true friend supports you during tough times. If they’re absent when you need them most, it’s a red flag. ​​One-Sided Effort​​: If you’re always the one reaching out or making sacrifices, the friendship may not be balanced. ​​Betrayal of Trust​​: Trust is foundational. If broken, it’s hard to rebuild. ​​Feeling Drained​​: If interactions leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, it might be time to step back. Reflect on your feelings and prioritize your well-being. Sometimes, letting go is the healthiest choice. #Friendship #ToxicFriendship #EndingFriendship #EmotionalWellness #SelfCare

Signs it might be time to end a friendship​
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