My Parents Ditched Me for Paradise—Right Before Baby Arrives?! 😱🏖️
Lately, I’ve been hit with this wave of sadness and confusion. My parents, who used to be my rock, now spend most of the year living it up in the Caribbean. Meanwhile, I’m about to welcome their first grandchild, and they’re nowhere close to home. I always imagined them being here, helping me through pregnancy, but instead, they’re sending me photos of sunsets and cocktails.
My husband’s parents, who live just a short drive away, are already stepping in and offering support. I’m grateful, but it hurts that my own parents are so distant—both in miles and in heart. They keep asking us to visit, but between work, doctor’s appointments, and preparing for the baby, it’s just not possible.
Growing up, my grandparents were always around, so it stings to think my child might miss out on that bond. Am I wrong for wishing my parents would choose family over fun? Has anyone else felt this torn between wanting your parents to enjoy life and needing them close? I’d really love to hear your thoughts and stories. Let’s talk about it. 💬
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