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#LoveAndLoss
Vickyyy

Cherish every moment – A heartbreaking reminder​

Easter weekend, I (31M) lost my fiancée (28F) to an overdose. She relapsed after nearly two years while visiting her family. In just hours, I lost everything that mattered—her, our plans, and the life we were building together. Her 5-year-old son, who she adored, is now living with his grandmother over six hours away. Her dog was sent to a shelter because my apartment doesn’t allow pets. I stayed with her and her son 99% of the time for the past year, and now, I’m back in my apartment, which feels so strange after being with them for so long. I miss the little things—cooking for three, bath time, bedtime hugs, and even just walking the dog. I miss her voice, her laughter, and the future we planned. It’s a harsh reminder that life can change in an instant. Please, don’t go to bed angry. Don’t leave each other without making up. Say “I love you” often and live in the moment. You never know when it might be your last. She used to say, “Why the rush? We have our whole lives.” Now, I realize how true that is. Don’t wait—live every day to the fullest. #Loss #Heartbreak #CherishTheMoment #LoveAndLoss #Gratitude #RomanticRelationships

Cherish every moment – A heartbreaking reminder​
Barbara Harris

how do you move on when your heart's still in the past?

It’s been three years since my husband passed away. For a long time, I couldn’t even think about being with anyone else. But recently, I started dating again. I met someone new—he’s sweet, attentive, and we’ve had some great dates. I enjoy his company, but we haven’t crossed any boundaries yet. Last night, I had a dream about my late husband. He was in the kitchen, cooking, and telling me I needed to take care of myself. When I woke up, I couldn’t stop crying. I felt so guilty—how could I be with someone else when I still love him so much? Today, the guy I’m dating reached out to make plans again, and I’m feeling conflicted. I don’t know if I’m ready, or if I’m betraying my husband’s memory. It’s been a journey to get this far, and now, I’m just trying to figure out what comes next. #Grief #MovingForward #LoveAndLoss

how do you move on when your heart's still in the past?
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