How much patience can one person have in a marriage?
I feel like I’ve been dealing with this for years now, and I’m honestly losing it. My wife’s temper is getting worse, and what seemed like "just a bad day" at first has turned into a daily struggle. I’ve been married for almost 5 years, and I’m honestly wondering if I’m just asking too much. All I want is a stable, patient partner.
For example, if I take more than 10 seconds to fix a computer issue, she literally snatches it back and starts complaining. Or when anything goes wrong, like a tech issue or broken dish, she immediately blames me and starts attacking the situation, even if it’s not my fault. It’s exhausting.
And don't get me started on how she twists everything I say. It feels like everything I do or say is wrong. I’ve tried marriage counseling, but she won’t budge. At this point, I’m mentally drained. It feels like I’m living with someone who’s constantly on edge, and I’m just trying to keep it together for our kid.
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