Ditch Awkward Mingling—Make Real Connections!
Mingling with strangers? Ugh, I know—it can feel SO awkward! 😅 But honestly, I've learned it doesn't have to be a nightmare. Here's how I make it way less scary:
• I scan the room for someone I know (an "in" always helps!)
• If I don't know anyone, I look for small, open groups—way less intimidating!
• I stand near the action (food table, bar, etc.) so it's easy to start a convo
• I SMILE (even if I have to practice first 🙈)
• I introduce myself and ask simple questions like, "What brings you here?"
• I make eye contact and keep my body language open—no hiding in the corner!
• I help others mingle too. If I see someone alone, I say hi. We both win!
• I avoid my phone (tempting, but it screams "don't talk to me!")
Honestly, the more I put myself out there, the easier it gets. Not every convo will be amazing, but every time I try, I get a little better. ❤️ Who knows? Your next best friend (or job!) could be one hello away!
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