Torn Between My Daughter and My Fiancé—My Heart Can’t Take It! 💔😩
Some nights, I lie awake in our small Chicago apartment, feeling like I’m being pulled apart. My 17-year-old daughter and my fiancé just can’t find common ground, no matter how many family dinners or movie nights I plan. After eight years with my fiancé, my daughter finally gave me an ultimatum: him or her. The pain of having to choose between the two people I love most is overwhelming.
My fiancé isn’t great with teenagers—he says things that sting, even if he doesn’t mean to. I work long shifts at the hospital, but I always try to make time for my daughter, taking her to concerts or late-night ice cream runs. Still, the moment we walk back through the door, the tension is thick enough to cut with a knife.
With my own battles—bipolar, anxiety, depression—sometimes it feels like I’m failing everyone. Am I selfish for wanting love, too? Or am I letting my daughter down? If you’ve ever felt stuck in the middle like this, please share your story. Maybe we can help each other find a way out. 💬💔
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