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He Proposed But Won't Add My Name to Lease - Red Flags? 🚩💔

After surviving a nightmare marriage with cheating and abuse, I thought I'd found my happy ending. My partner of 5 years proposed on New Year's - my kids finally accepted him, everything seemed perfect! 💍✨ But yesterday shattered my confidence. When I suggested adding my name to his lease (we've lived together 3 years!), he went cold. "You might chuck me out in 6 months," he said. Then during wedding planning, he snapped about me "still talking about weddings" after HE proposed! 😤 Now I'm spiraling. Am I overthinking, or are these major red flags? After my ex left me drowning in his debts, I desperately need security. But his reluctance to truly commit - even after proposing - has me questioning everything. Have you ever felt like your partner wanted the romance but not the real commitment? I'm lying awake wondering if I'm being paranoid or protecting myself. What would you do? 💭 #RelationshipStruggles #SecondMarriage #CommitmentIssues #FamilyRelationships