paris, portugal, or spain for a december mother-daughter trip?
My daughter is wrapping up her semester in London in early December, and I’m flying out from the rainy Pacific Northwest to meet her for a week of adventure. We’ve already done London as a family, so we’re itching to see somewhere new in Europe—just the two of us.
We both love soaking up local culture, poking around old churches, and eating our way through a city (but we’re not looking for Michelin stars—just good, honest food). She’s obsessed with vintage shops and bookstores, and we both get a kick out of quirky architecture and modern art. Christmas decorations? Yes, please. But those crowded Christmas markets? We could take them or leave them. We’re both up for walking miles every day, so we don’t want to spend half our trip on trains or planes.
Paris is the obvious choice—museums, shopping, pastries, and that classic mother-daughter vibe. The catch? She might sneak in a quick Paris weekend while she’s in London, but she swears she’ll still be excited to go with me. I keep wondering: is it silly to spend a whole week in Paris if she’s already been for a couple of days? Or is that the best way to really get to know the city?
Portugal has always been on my list. Lisbon looks amazing, but then I get stuck—should we risk rainy Porto, or head to the Algarve, even though it’s low season and some people say it’s not worth it? I keep reading mixed reviews, and I don’t want to drag us somewhere that feels empty or dreary.
Then there’s Spain—specifically Andalusia. The weather is supposed to be the best, and I’m fascinated by the history and architecture. But if we go, I feel like we’d have to cram too much into too little time, and I’d rather not be packing up every night. Plus, part of me wants to save Spain for a future trip with my husband and son, since I know they’d love it too. But what if we’re missing out by skipping it now?
I keep going in circles. Do we go for the classic Paris experience, finally check Portugal off my bucket list, or dive into Spain and risk FOMO for the rest of the family? Every option has its own little catch, and I can’t help but worry we’ll pick the wrong one. Anyone else get stuck overthinking these trips?
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