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if friends get me more than he does… why date him?

So here’s what I’ve been thinking (and spiraling about tbh): I’m in a relationship, but I keep asking myself—why tho? My best friend gives me way more emotional support than my boyfriend ever has. We have deep convos about weird, random stuff—like the meaning of life, personal growth, personality spirals—and she actually gets me. There’s this kind of connection that feels like real resonance. Meanwhile, my boyfriend… just doesn’t go there. And I’ve kinda accepted that. I’m not in it for money or gifts either—we’re both broke and chill about it. No big gestures, no fancy holidays. So if it’s not for emotional depth, and not for material stuff… what’s the point? Is anyone else feeling this weird disconnection too? Like, is love supposed to feel different than deep friendship, or is that just a myth we buy into? #relationshipthoughts #deepstuff #figuringitout