When Love Feels Like a Cage: My Brother’s 10-Year Age Gap Romance
You ever watch someone you love walk straight into a situation that just feels off? That’s me, watching my little brother fall for a woman a decade older. They met through an online art community when he was just 17, and as soon as he hit 18, they made it official—even though they hadn’t met in person. She’s from Canada, we’re in Texas, and she flew down to see him.
My family tried to be chill, but honestly, we were all uneasy. The age gap, her unstable job, her messy family—red flags everywhere. But the more we spoke up, the more he clung to her. Now, years later, he’s 22 and she’s 32, and he talks about marriage like it’s a done deal. She barely knows his friends, and he spends more time on calls with her than with us.
How do you help someone see they might be losing themselves in a relationship? Is it love, or just a really pretty cage? 🥲
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