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InkwellIllusion

hiking with my autistic teen in switzerland

We dragged our 13-year-old son out to Sörenberg in Switzerland for a hike, and let me tell you, the complaints started before we even left the hotel. He’s autistic, so new places and routines can be a real struggle for him. I was honestly bracing myself for a full day of grumbling and maybe even a meltdown or two. But then, halfway up the trail, I turned around and saw him absolutely beaming at the view—like he’d just discovered a secret world up in those mountains. Here’s the thing: every time we plan something outdoorsy, he acts like it’s the end of the world, but then he ends up loving it. I can’t figure out if he really hates the idea or just likes to put up a fight. Anyone else’s kid do this? I’m torn between feeling guilty for pushing him and being glad we didn’t give in to the complaints. Sometimes I wonder if I’m being stubborn or if he actually needs that extra nudge to enjoy something new. The Swiss scenery is stunning, but parenting on these trails is a whole different adventure. #parentingteens #autismjourney #familytravel #Travel

hiking with my autistic teen in switzerland
BreezyButterfly

is our mexico-belize-guatemala trip too rushed?

We’re gearing up for a big family adventure this July—me, my wife, and our two teens. We’ll land in Mexico City late in the afternoon, and only have two days to soak up the city before flying out to Bacalar. I keep hearing how vibrant CDMX is, but honestly, with teenagers in tow, I’m not sure we’d survive more than two days of city chaos anyway. Still, I can’t help but wonder if we’re missing out by not staying longer. After that, we’re off to Bacalar for three nights. I’ve seen those dreamy blue lagoon photos online, and I’m hoping it lives up to the hype. I’m a little worried the kids will get bored after a day or two—how many times can you kayak before it gets old? Then we’re heading to Caye Caulker, which sounds chill, but I’m secretly dreading the humidity and the mosquitoes. My wife is all about relaxing, but I get antsy if I’m not exploring something new every day. From there, it’s on to San Ignacio and Tikal, and finally ending up in Antigua before flying out of Guatemala. Most places we’re staying three nights, which seems reasonable, but I keep second-guessing myself. Is this too much hopping around? I want us to relax, but I also don’t want to feel like we’re just ticking boxes. Anyone else ever feel like you need a vacation after your vacation? #familytravel #centralamerica #travelplanning #Travel

is our mexico-belize-guatemala trip too rushed?
ArcaneAura

traveling abroad with a minor: what could go wrong?

Last summer, my girlfriend and I planned a big trip to Ireland with her mom. I’m 20, she’s 17, and we’ve been together for over a year. After Ireland, we wanted to hop around Europe with my dad, and then just the two of us would fly home. Sounds simple, right? But here’s where things get tricky: she’s still under 18, and I started worrying about what border control might say when they see us traveling together, especially since we’re not family. I’ve heard all sorts of stories—some people say it’s fine, others say border agents can get suspicious or even stop you if you’re not related and one of you is a minor. I don’t want to end up stuck at the airport explaining our whole relationship to a stranger in uniform. Plus, the rules seem to change depending on the country. It’s wild how something as simple as a birthday can make or break your travel plans. Has anyone else tried traveling internationally with a minor who isn’t family? Did you get questioned at the border, or was it smooth sailing? I can’t be the only one who’s run into this weird gray area. I’m honestly tempted to just wait until she turns 18, but that feels like letting bureaucracy win. If you’ve dealt with this, I’d love to hear how it played out for you. #travelquestions #familytravel #bordercontrol #Travel

traveling abroad with a minor: what could go wrong?
BubblyButterfly

traveling to ireland with a toddler: is sleep chaos worth it?

We’re thinking about taking our almost 2-year-old to Ireland and Scotland, and honestly, I’m torn. The idea of exploring those green hills and cozy pubs sounds amazing, but then I remember the 5-hour time difference. Last month, we tried just one night at grandma’s and our little one was up at 3 a.m. ready to party. I can’t help but wonder if a full-on overseas trip will just wreck everyone’s sleep for the whole vacation. I’ve heard some parents say their kids adjust in a day or two, but others say it’s a total nightmare. Has anyone actually survived a trip like this with a toddler? Did you end up spending your evenings rocking a wide-awake kid while everyone else enjoyed the local music? I’d love to hear if the adventure is worth the jet lag, or if we’re just asking for trouble. #familytravel #toddlers #parenting #Travel

traveling to ireland with a toddler: is sleep chaos worth it?
DuskyDynamo

traveling portugal with three kids under five—no car seats!

We're thinking about taking our three little ones (all under five!) to Portugal for about a week and a half this fall. The idea is to skip the hassle of lugging around car seats and just use public transportation—buses and trains all the way. I keep picturing us trying to wrangle three tired kids and a mountain of luggage onto a train platform, and honestly, it sounds both exciting and a little terrifying. We want to see the beautiful coastlines, maybe wander through Lisbon’s old neighborhoods, and find some kid-friendly spots that aren’t just tourist traps. But I’m worried about how doable this really is without a car. Are the trains and buses actually easy to use with little kids? Will we end up stuck somewhere with no stroller access or waiting forever for a bus that never comes? I love the idea of traveling light, but I don’t want to spend half the trip stressed out or chasing after runaway toddlers in a crowded station. Has anyone tried this? Did you regret not bringing car seats, or was it actually a relief? And are there any must-see places that are especially fun for young kids but still easy to reach without a car? Sometimes I feel like these "family-friendly" guides forget that not everyone wants to rent a car or deal with car seats on vacation. It feels like a toss-up between freedom and convenience versus chaos and exhaustion. #familytravel #portugal #travelwithkids #Travel

traveling portugal with three kids under five—no car seats!
SolsticeSojourn

maldives or vietnam for a family trip with a baby?

Last night, we sat around the kitchen table, passports and travel brochures everywhere, trying to settle on our big family vacation for May. There are eight of us, plus our little nine-month-old, and we’re torn between the Maldives and Vietnam. I’m honestly feeling a bit stuck. The Maldives looks like a dream—those ocean villas with private pools, all the meals included, and you can get there with just a short flight and a quick speedboat ride. No layovers, no dragging luggage through crowded airports. I keep picturing us lounging by the water, the baby napping in the shade, and everyone just relaxing. But then I think: is it really worth splurging on a place famous for honeymoons when we’re coming as a big family? Will we get bored after a few days, or is the luxury experience really that special? Vietnam, on the other hand, is packed with culture and adventure. Halong Bay, lantern-lit streets in Hoi An, street food everywhere—my mouth waters just thinking about it. But I’m worried it might be too much moving around with a baby in tow. Packing up every couple of days, figuring out strollers in busy markets, and making sure everyone (especially our vegetarian parents) can find something to eat. Is it worth the hassle, or will we end up exhausted instead of recharged? I’d love to hear from anyone who’s actually done these trips with a baby or a big family. Did you regret going for the easy, all-inclusive route, or did the adventure make the extra effort worthwhile? And if you’ve been to the Maldives, did you run into any trouble finding good vegetarian or Jain food? #familytravel #maldives #vietnam #Travel

maldives or vietnam for a family trip with a baby?
WanderlustWolverine

can i buy my son’s europe flight with my card?

I’ve been thinking about surprising my son with plane tickets to Europe and England—he’s always wanted to go, and I figured, why not make it a gift? So I started looking at flights and noticed that sometimes, especially on those travel shows, people run into all sorts of issues: delayed flights, last-minute gate changes, or even needing to switch airlines. It got me wondering, if I pay for his ticket with my credit card, will he run into trouble if something goes wrong? Like, if he needs to change his flight or transfer the ticket, will the airline give him a hard time because the card isn’t in his name? I’d hate for my gift to turn into a headache for him. Has anyone else tried booking flights for their kids or family members with their own card? Did you run into any problems at the airport or with customer service? I want this to be a smooth trip for him, not a stressful one. It’s funny how a simple gift can get so complicated! #travelquestions #familytravel #flightbooking #Travel

can i buy my son’s europe flight with my card?
FrostGlyph

does my 16-year-old need a consent letter to fly to china?

My son just turned 16, and he’s about to fly solo to China to visit his grandparents. We spent hours comparing flights and finally booked him a round-trip ticket with China Southern Airlines. Now, I keep hearing mixed things about what paperwork he actually needs. Some folks say we have to write a consent letter from both parents, but the airline says their unaccompanied minor service isn’t even required for kids his age. I’m honestly getting a bit anxious—what if he gets stuck at customs because we missed something? I’ve read stories online about teens being held up for not having the right documents, and it’s making me second-guess everything. Does the U.S. or China really check for a parental consent letter when a 16-year-old travels alone? And what about when he comes back—will U.S. customs ask for anything special? I just want to make sure he doesn’t run into any trouble, but I’m starting to feel like the rules are different everywhere. Anyone else gone through this with their teenager? #familytravel #teenagers #internationalflights #Travel

does my 16-year-old need a consent letter to fly to china?
JadeJester

is a 15-day canada road trip with a baby too much?

We’re thinking about doing a 15-day road trip across Canada with our little one, who’ll be six months old by then. The plan is to fly from Rome to Toronto, rent a car, and hit all the big spots: Niagara Falls, Montreal, Quebec City, Ottawa, Algonquin Park, and a few more in between. Honestly, I’m excited but also a bit nervous. We’ve done a few 2-3 hour drives with our son, and he’s been a champ so far—mostly napping or just quietly looking out the window. But this trip is a whole different level. Some days we’d be driving for almost four hours, and there’s even a six-hour stretch from Jacques-Cartier National Park to Ottawa. I keep picturing us stuck in the car with a fussy baby and nowhere to pull over except for some random gas station in the middle of nowhere. We want to see the sights, do some easy walks, and definitely try the local food (I’ve heard poutine is a must, but will I even get to enjoy it if the baby’s crying?). But I’m also worried we’re being too ambitious. Is it realistic to cover this much ground with a baby, or are we just setting ourselves up for exhaustion and disappointment? Has anyone tried something like this? Did you regret packing in so many stops, or was it worth it for the memories? I’d love to hear if there are any places you’d skip or swap out, especially if you’ve traveled with a little one. I want to make the most of our trip, but not at the cost of everyone’s sanity. #CanadaRoadTrip #TravelWithBaby #FamilyTravel #Travel

is a 15-day canada road trip with a baby too much?
Snickerdazzle

traveling europe with teen boys: safety and staying connected

Last summer, we finally took the plunge and booked a trip to Europe with our two teenage boys. I thought I was prepared, but the reality hit me the moment we landed in Amsterdam: how do I keep track of these two, especially in busy train stations or crowded city squares? I stuck AirTags in their backpacks, but then worried they’d lose the bags or just leave them somewhere (which, of course, happened in Brussels). Is there a better way to make sure I know where they are, without making them feel like I’m spying? Another thing that caught me off guard: staying in touch with family back home. My husband’s mom wanted daily updates, but with the time difference and spotty Wi-Fi in some places, it felt impossible. I tried group chats, but the boys barely replied, and my mother-in-law got anxious when she didn’t hear from us. Has anyone found a good system for keeping relatives in the loop, especially when teens are not exactly chatty? And then there’s the whole meeting-relatives-for-the-first-time situation. In Wales, the boys were shy and awkward, and in the Netherlands, they just wanted to play on their phones. I tried prepping them with stories about the family, but it didn’t seem to help much. I felt like I was forcing them to be social, and it just made everyone uncomfortable. How do you help teens connect with relatives they’ve never met, especially when there’s a language barrier or big age gap? I’d love to hear what’s actually worked for other families, because honestly, I felt like I was failing at every turn. #familytravel #teentravel #europewithkids #Travel

traveling europe with teen boys: safety and staying connected