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PrismPilgrim

Husband Wants Grieving MIL on Our First Family Vacation in 3 Years! 😤

I'm absolutely torn right now and need some perspective! 😔 After three long years of waiting, we finally planned our dream family vacation with the kids. But here's the thing - my father-in-law passed away recently, and now my husband insists on bringing his mom along. Don't get me wrong, I feel terrible for her loss. But this was supposed to be OUR time together as a family! 💔 I suggested we could plan a separate trip with her later this year, but he's being stubborn. He literally said he won't go without her! I'm stuck between being the supportive wife and protecting our family time. The kids have been looking forward to this for months, and honestly, so have I. Am I being selfish here? Have you ever been caught between your spouse and in-laws like this? I feel like I'm going crazy! 😩 #FamilyDrama #MotherInLawProblems #FamilyVacation #FamilyRelationships

Husband Wants Grieving MIL on Our First Family Vacation in 3 Years! 😤
NebulaNinja

flying with toddlers: is it really worth the hassle?

We’ve been dreaming about a relaxing all-inclusive getaway, but the thought of flying with our 14-month-old is honestly stressing me out. Last week, we spent 30 minutes just trying to get him to sit still in his high chair at breakfast—how are we supposed to keep him happy on a cramped plane for three hours? And don’t even get me started on the airplane bathrooms. I can barely fit myself in there, let alone try to change a wiggly toddler. I see all these families posting perfect vacation photos, but I can’t help but wonder if they’re hiding the real chaos behind the scenes. Are we missing some secret tricks? Or is everyone just silently suffering through it for the sake of a change of scenery? We’re first-time parents, so every little thing feels like a big deal. If you’ve braved a flight with a little one, how did you actually manage those diaper changes and meltdowns? Did you regret it, or was it totally worth it in the end? #parentingstruggles #travelwithkids #familyvacation #Travel

flying with toddlers: is it really worth the hassle?
GleeNinja

is there a true all-inclusive resort bubble in the us?

Last summer, after juggling work, kids’ schedules, and a mountain of laundry, I finally hit my breaking point. I told my spouse, “I just want to show up somewhere, drop my bags, and not think about a single meal or activity for a week.” No planning, no driving, no endless Google searches for ‘best family-friendly restaurants near me.’ We’ve done Disney World before—stayed at the Grand Floridian, hopped between pools, and tried to make dinner reservations before they vanished. But even there, I still felt like I was constantly checking my phone, trying to keep up with schedules and apps. I want that true resort bubble: multiple restaurants, pools, and activities all within walking distance, so I don’t have to herd everyone into a car or worry about logistics. Here’s the kicker: I don’t want to leave the US right now. I know Mexico and the Caribbean have those dreamy all-inclusives, but I’m not up for international travel at the moment. I’ve looked at places like Great Wolf Lodge, but it feels more like a water park with a hotel than a real resort. And don’t get me started on the so-called ‘all-inclusive’ ranches—they always seem to have a catch, like extra fees for anything fun. Has anyone actually found a place in the US that nails that zero-planning, all-in-one resort vibe? Or is this just wishful thinking for tired parents like us? #familyvacation #resortlife #parenting #Travel

is there a true all-inclusive resort bubble in the us?
AbyssalAcolyte

finding the perfect east coast beach town for june

Every June, as soon as school lets out, we try to plan a family trip. This year is extra special—it's my milestone birthday, and I want to make it memorable. But honestly, picking the right beach spot on the East Coast is turning into a bit of a headache. I’ve spent days scrolling through travel forums, and I still feel stuck. Here’s what I’m wrestling with: I’d love a beach town where we can walk from our Airbnb to a cute downtown—think boardwalks, little shops, and plenty of restaurants. I’m an early riser and love to run, so a safe, scenic place for morning jogs is a must. The kids are teenagers, so I need somewhere with enough to keep them entertained—shopping, activities, maybe even a little adventure. But here’s the catch: I don’t care about nightlife, and I’m not a fan of Florida (no offense to the Sunshine State, but I’d rather try somewhere new). The Carolinas have never been on our travel list, but they’re starting to sound tempting. My wife’s always dreamed of Savannah, but I’m clueless about the beach scene there. Charleston pops up a lot, but is it just hype, or is it really worth it? We’re hoping to keep the Airbnb under $2,000, and we’ll be flying in from Michigan, so a rental car is a given. I know every beach is packed in June, but if there’s a way to dodge the worst crowds, I’m all ears. We’ve done Maine before, but I’m not sure if it’s warm enough for real beach days in June—nothing kills the vibe like freezing water when you’re hoping for sun and sand. Has anyone found that sweet spot—a walkable, runner-friendly beach town with enough for teens to do, but not so crowded you can’t breathe? And is there really a difference between Savannah and Charleston for families? I’d love to hear about places that surprised you (good or bad), especially if you’ve traveled with teens. Sometimes it feels like every place is either too sleepy or too wild, and I just want something in between. Anyone else feel like the perfect beach town is always just out of reach? #FamilyVacation #BeachTrip #EastCoast #Travel

finding the perfect east coast beach town for june
Elizabeth Figueroa

Daughter-in-Law invited her family to our vacation – What do I do?​

We had a lake cabin vacation planned for June, just our little family. Then, out of nowhere, my daughter-in-law’s mom called to say she found a “better” place for all of us to stay. Turns out, my daughter-in-law invited her mom and siblings to join us! Her mom then started detailing costs—cabin, boat rental, restaurants—and even planned meals for when we’re not eating out. I’m feeling completely blindsided and stressed. Right now, I just want to cancel the whole thing. Spending a week with my in-laws sounds like a nightmare. ​​Update:​​ I canceled our plans and made new ones. Her mom demanded I pay half of her cabin rental! I refused and stuck to canceling. Haven’t talked to my son or daughter-in-law yet. I’m just hoping this blows over. I love my grandson dearly and don’t want drama to affect our relationship. Her mom is a classic Karen, always demanding and controlling. #FamilyVacation #UnexpectedGuests #FamilyDrama #BoundarySetting #KarenMom #RomanticRelationships

Daughter-in-Law invited her family to our vacation – What do I do?​