why is my fiancé insisting his ex-wife come to our wedding?
I’m in a tough spot with my fiancé. We’re planning our wedding, and out of nowhere, he insists his ex-wife be invited. I’ve been open with him about how uncomfortable it makes me, especially since she’ll only know his family. To make it even more complicated, they divorced because she cheated on him, and he’s shared how controlling and jealous she was during their marriage.
Last night, I told him how I felt, and he completely flipped, raising his voice and saying, "My son’s mother is coming to the wedding!" It feels like he’s more worried about keeping the peace with her than considering my feelings. He’s worried if he doesn't invite her, she’ll make his life miserable. I can’t help but feel like he’s prioritizing her over me.
Am I being unreasonable for wanting a wedding day where I don’t have to deal with this? I’m starting to feel like I need to process my own feelings about this situation.
#weddingdrama #relationshipboundaries #fianceissues
