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is yelling or walking away worse during a fight?

Fighting with someone you love feels awful, but here’s what changed everything for me: the goal isn’t to "win," it’s to understand. If we only scream or storm off, all we do is hurt each other. I started focusing on listening, actually hearing what they felt, not just what they said. It made our fights less about blame and more about solving stuff together. Sometimes it meant swallowing my pride and giving in a little — and crazy enough, that made us closer. Fighting isn’t a breakup sign, it’s a weird, messy way of learning each other better. If you do it with love, it stops being a fight and starts being real growth. #relationshipadvice #fightfair #growtogether