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JadedJester

My Partner’s Insecurity Hijacks My Happiness 😵‍💔

Last night, I was on cloud nine, texting my friend about his wedding, when my boyfriend suddenly went silent. Ten minutes later, he told me he was depressed—again. It’s always when I’m happy. He even snooped through my phone after I mentioned a coworker’s engagement, worried I was hiding something. He constantly interrupts me if I’m texting, needing my attention 24/7. I can’t even talk to friends without him spiraling. I’ve spent too many nights sitting in the dark, feeling guilty for his sadness. He apologizes, but somehow I’m always to blame. He once called me a “fucking idiot” and then justified it by saying my negativity made him snap. Am I crazy for thinking this is manipulation? I’m so confused and angry. Why does my happiness trigger his sadness? Is it possible to fix this, or am I just fooling myself? Please, tell me what you’d do if you were me. 😩🤯 #relationshipstruggles #emotionalhealth #insecurities #toxiclove #needadvice #RomanticRelationships

My Partner’s Insecurity Hijacks My Happiness 😵‍💔
NorthernNettle

When the Honeymoon Ends: Am I Clingy or Just Caring? 😅

Lately, I feel like I’m stuck in this weird limbo with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for about eight months, and at first, everything was so easy—constant texts, deep talks, and just being wrapped up in each other. But now, with both of us buried in college exams, he’s been distant, and I can’t help but wonder if I’m the problem. I want to give him space, but every time I try, I end up sending another good morning text or checking in, just to feel close. I’m scared I’m smothering him, but I’m also terrified of losing what we had. Is it selfish to want reassurance, or am I just overthinking everything? I feel exhausted trying to balance my own life and not seem needy. How do you even talk about this without making things worse? Would love to hear if anyone else has felt this way. 🥲 #relationshipstruggles #emotionaldistance #collegecouple #communication #insecurities #RomanticRelationships

When the Honeymoon Ends: Am I Clingy or Just Caring? 😅
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