is he really in love or just obsessed with my cat? my story
Sometimes I wonder if my boyfriend loves me or if he’s just here for my cat, Mr. Whiskers. I mean, he brings treats, takes selfies with the cat, and even talks to him in a baby voice. But then, there are those moments that make me think, “Wow, this guy is actually in love with me.”
Like when he remembers my favorite snack or sends me memes just to make me laugh. Or when he listens to my rants about work and doesn’t try to fix everything—he just listens. That’s a big one for me.
We’ve been together for three years, and I’ve learned that love isn’t always about grand gestures. Sometimes it’s about sharing the last slice of pizza or binge-watching a show you secretly hate because your partner loves it. Pay attention to the little things. If he makes you feel safe, seen, and a little bit spoiled, he’s probably in love—with you, not just your cat.
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