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Debra Cole

Husband wants to divorce and "start over," says he "can't bond" with our daughter

I'm writing this with a heavy heart, hoping there's still a way to fix what feels broken beyond repair.My husband (29M) and I (30NB) have been married for five years. Last September, we welcomed our first child—a beautiful baby girl. Labor was complicated, and after things went downhill quickly, I needed an emergency C-section. My husband had to leave the room and wasn't there for her birth.Now, just months later, he's saying he wants a divorce. He says he "can't bond" with our daughter because he didn’t witness her birth, and claims he’s lost the dream of having a "small, close-knit family." Therapy was suggested by his dad, but he refused, insisting it's hopeless.I feel so lost. I know there’s no magic fix, but I can’t help hoping. Is there truly no way back from here?If you've been through anything similar, how did you handle it? Please share your thoughts in the comments. #MarriageStruggles #NewParenthood #FamilyHealing #BrokenDreams #ParentingJourney. #Parenting

Diana Rivera

why is my husband pushing me to abort and divorce him??

I’m pregnant with our second baby (we have a 15-month-old), and everything is falling apart. My husband and I had planned for this second child, but recently, everything changed. Two weeks ago, we had a huge fight, and now he’s avoiding me, staying in hotels, and even traveling to Vegas without his wedding ring. His mom is pressuring me to abort, and I feel like that’s influencing his attitude toward this baby. He’s been incredibly distant and cruel, and now he’s talking about a divorce and trying to get me to sign a post-nup. On top of all this, I’ve discovered he’s following random girls on Instagram. I’m lost, confused, and wondering if I’m making the right choices. I’ve already had two abortions before our marriage, but this time feels different—especially with the trust issues and possible infidelity. I’m praying, but I feel like it’s just getting worse. What do I do? How do I handle this? #MarriageStruggles #PregnancyStress #Infidelity

AuroraAspire

After eleven years of marriage, I still cheated on my wife mentally 😳💔🤦‍♂️

For 11 years, my wife and I have built a life together—kids, memories, the whole package. But lately, I found myself drawn to my coworker, Talia. It started as innocent chats, but soon, I was questioning everything. Was I missing something at home? Was my wife noticing my distance? The guilt ate at me. I finally confessed my feelings to my wife, and we both broke down. We talked about our lost connection, the time we stopped spending together, and the fear of infidelity. It was raw and painful, but honest. We promised to rebuild trust—date nights, open talks, no more secrets. Ending things with Talia was hard, but necessary. Now, I’m trying to focus on my wife, but the doubts and memories linger. How do you rebuild trust after crossing lines? Ever been here? I need real advice, not just clichés. 😬😵‍♂️🤷‍♂️ #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #Infidelity #RomanticRelationships

AstroNomad

My Husband Left After 20 Years—But a Miracle Brought Him Back! 😭💔✨

After 20 years of marriage, my world shattered when my husband left me and our kids. For 10 long months, I cried every night, haunted by the thought of him with another woman. Every time the kids called from his new place, I could hear the changes—new pictures on the wall, her touch everywhere. It broke my heart even more, knowing he was moving on while I was stuck in pain. I felt hopeless, unable to move forward because we still had to talk for the kids. My love for him just wouldn’t fade. I tried everything to bring him back, desperate for the family we once had. Then, by some miracle, I found help through Prophet Munak. His guidance and support helped me restore peace in my home and reunite my family. Now, I cherish every moment with my husband and children again. Have you ever felt completely lost in your marriage or family? I’d love to hear your stories and how you found hope again. Let’s support each other! 💬❤️ #MarriageStruggles #FamilyHealing #RelationshipAdvice #FamilyRelationships

GlitchGuru

Pregnant, Exhausted, and Still Doing It All—Is This Fair? 😤

Let me paint you a picture: I’m 28, pregnant with our second, and my hormones are running the show. My husband (31) works full-time, I work two days a week, and the rest of my time is spent chasing after our toddler. But when it comes to chores—cooking, cleaning our 3x2, walking HIS dog, laundry, daycare drop-offs—I’m doing 90%. NINETY. PERCENT. Last night, after a day of nausea and tears, I begged him to help more. His response? A shrug and a mumble about being tired. Tired? I’m growing a human! Is it too much to ask for a 50/50 split? Or am I just being hormonal? Please, tell me—how do you split chores fairly when one person is literally making another person? 😩 I need advice before I lose my mind! #MarriageStruggles #ChoreWars #PregnancyProblems #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships

GlisteningGlider

My Husband Turned Me Into His Personal ATM—Now I’m Drowning in Debt 😡

We’ve been married five years, and somehow, I’m the one left with $20k in debt while my husband acts like he’s the victim. We agreed I’d use my credit cards for our shared expenses and he’d pay me back his half every month. Guess what? He never did. Now my credit score is in the gutter, and he still expects me to Venmo him my share the second we split a bill. I work two jobs and do most of the cleaning, but he shrugs off my frustration like it’s nothing. I’ve tried talking to him, but he just doesn’t get how much this debt is crushing me. How do I let go of this resentment when he doesn’t even care? Or am I just supposed to keep smiling while my bank account cries? 😤💸 What would you do if you were in my shoes? #FinancialConflict #MarriageStruggles #DebtProblems #RomanticRelationships

SonicSunrise

My Husband Feels Like a Stranger—Is This Even Marriage? 😢

Lately, it feels like my husband and I are just two people living under the same roof, barely connecting. He comes home late, glued to his phone, and the only time we talk is about bills or what’s for dinner. With our first baby on the way, I imagined we’d be closer than ever, but instead, I feel more alone than I ever have. We used to laugh together, go for late-night ice cream runs, and he’d always surprise me with little things. Now, it’s like we’re just roommates, not partners. I see other couples holding hands at the park or posting cute photos, and I can’t help but wonder—what happened to us? I tried to open up to him, but he just shrugged it off, saying we’re not like everyone else. Am I just being emotional, or is this something deeper? Has anyone else felt their marriage drift into this weird, lonely routine? Please tell me I’m not alone in feeling this way. 💬 #MarriageStruggles #FeelingAlone #RelationshipRealTalk #FamilyRelationships

PrismaticPulse

Husband's Drunken Nights Left Me Alone and Worried! 😩🍻

Last night was supposed to be simple—I got home early from my friend's birthday, ready for our son's big party the next morning. My husband promised he'd just have a couple of beers with his buddies, and my dad was babysitting. But by 10:30pm, he still wasn't home. I called and texted, but nothing. My mind raced with worry and frustration. By 11pm, I couldn't take it anymore. I walked over to his friend's place and found him, drunk and laughing, completely forgetting his promise. I lost my cool and yelled at him, which I regret, but the fear and mistrust from his past drinking nights just overwhelmed me. Sometimes I feel so alone in this, always worrying and never knowing if I can trust him to keep his word. Have you ever felt this way? I really need someone to talk to who understands. 💔 #MarriageStruggles #TrustIssues #FamilyDrama #FamilyRelationships

SapphirePulse

My wife deletes chat history regularly because she doesn't want me to find out something.🤡🔥

I've never been the jealous type, but lately, my trust is running on fumes. My wife (30F) and I (31M) have been married for four years, and I rarely check her phone. But a year ago, I noticed she was texting a guy she claimed was her best friend's boyfriend. She said it was nothing, so I let it go. Fast forward to today, our son was playing with her phone, and I saw she’s still chatting with this guy—about music, movies, and all sorts of stuff. The weird part? The chat history starts this month, but their convo clearly goes way back. When I asked, she said she deletes chats for space, but old chats with others are still there. Now, I’m left feeling angry, confused, and honestly, a bit betrayed. I blocked the guy and deleted their chats, but now I’m just lost. How do I rebuild trust when I feel like I’m losing my mind? Would you feel the same, or am I just being paranoid? 😤🤯🤡 #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #Jealousy #Communication #RomanticRelationships

PrismaticPanda

After I Overcame Depression, My Husband Drove Me Back Into It🤦‍♀️🍸

After 12 years of marriage, I thought we were finally healing. Therapy helped me climb out of depression and communicate better, and for a while, things felt hopeful. But one night at a friend’s house in snowy Colorado, my husband got aggressively drunk and humiliated me in front of everyone—just because I didn’t want to join the hot tub. He called me names, accused me of ruining the night, and wouldn’t let it go. The next day, he barely remembered and gave me a half-hearted apology. Since then, I can’t shake the feeling that I’m not his priority, that all my hard work was for nothing. I’m angry, confused, and honestly, just exhausted. Is trust even possible after this? Or am I just fooling myself? Please, tell me—what would you do if you were in my shoes? 😤🥲🙃 #MarriageStruggles #TrustIssues #EmotionalAbuse #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships

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