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#marriagestruggles
ZenithZing

My husband and I seem to be growing apart after the birth of our child.🤔💔🤸‍♂️

Ever since we moved to Seattle, my husband (34M) and I (32F) have been at odds over something as simple as physical activity. He’s always been the outdoorsy type—biking, hiking, running—while I was more into yoga and dance. But after our son was born and I went through surgery, my energy just vanished. Now, he’s questioning if he even wants to be married to me because I’m not as active as he hoped. What hurts most isn’t just the constant nagging about exercise, but the way he checks my phone and questions my loyalty, as if my lack of hiking means I’m hiding something. I feel angry, confused, and honestly, exhausted. How do you rebuild trust when you feel like you’re being judged for every step you take—or don’t take? If you’ve been through this, how did you handle it? I just want to vent to someone who gets it. 🙃🤦‍♀️😤 #MarriageStruggles #TrustIssues #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalHealth #RomanticRelationships

My husband and I seem to be growing apart after the birth of our child.🤔💔🤸‍♂️
VirtualViolet

My beloved wife has become the most unfamiliar person🤯🤦‍♂️

My wife, who I thought I knew inside out, got sued for going way too far trying to dig up dirt on an old friend. She says she did it because Laura, her ex-friend, was a terrible person. But honestly, her reasons sound more like jealousy and old grudges than anything real. Now, I can’t help but question everything. I find myself wondering if she’s hiding more, if she’s ever lied to me about other things, or if she could even cross lines in our marriage. I’ve even caught myself wanting to check her phone or social media—something I never thought I’d do. We talk, but it’s tense. She resists therapy, insists we can fix things ourselves, but I’m not so sure. My anger, confusion, and resentment are eating me alive. How do you rebuild trust when you can’t even agree on how to start? If you’ve ever been here, how did you move forward? Or am I just fooling myself thinking things can go back to normal? 😵‍💫😬🤷‍♂️ #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalRollercoaster #RomanticRelationships

My beloved wife has become the most unfamiliar person🤯🤦‍♂️
IronIguana

Trust Breaks: My Husband Wants an Open Marriage?! 🤯🤡

After nearly 30 years together, my husband suddenly says he wants to "explore" outside our marriage. He’s haunted by my past (from three decades ago!) and now questions my loyalty, even though our sex life is anything but boring. I feel angry, confused, and honestly, a bit betrayed. Why is my history still an issue? Why does he think the answer is to risk everything we’ve built—including our family—just to chase something new? I’m scared of losing what we have, and I can’t help but wonder if he’ll regret this. I’ve decided to stand my ground and push for therapy, but I need advice. Have you ever faced something like this? How did you handle the trust crisis? Please, tell me I’m not alone in this madness! 😤💔🤪 #MarriageStruggles #TrustIssues #OpenRelationship #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalRollercoaster #RomanticRelationships

 Trust Breaks: My Husband Wants an Open Marriage?! 🤯🤡
VioletVortex

After a loveless marriage, my husband began to look for a second life 🤡🍽️

Fifteen years together, eleven married, and suddenly my husband thinks my food is 'tasteless'? Out of nowhere, he stops taking the lunches I make and claims he’s eating at a new Turkish stand. Turns out, he’s actually having lunch with a 25-year-old coworker who cooks for him. I found out by accident—he butt-dialed me and I heard them laughing about how her food is better than mine. He says he lied to avoid making me jealous, but how am I supposed to trust him now? I’m angry, hurt, and honestly questioning everything. I’ve stopped cooking for him, packed a suitcase, and I’m this close to leaving. Am I overreacting, or is this the last straw? What would you do if you were in my shoes? Please, I need some real talk. 😤🥲🤦‍♀️ #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #FeelingBetrayed #RomanticRelationships

After a loveless marriage, my husband began to look for a second life 🤡🍽️
KaleidoKinetic

My husband used his affair as an excuse to surprise me for our anniversary😳💔

Last night was a rollercoaster. I confronted my husband, convinced he was cheating—my heart pounding, my mind racing with every suspicious text and location ping. I’ve struggled with my self-esteem since our youngest was born, and even after losing weight and rebuilding our intimacy, those old insecurities still haunt me. So, I blurted it all out. He laughed, thinking I was joking, but when he saw my tears, he took me outside. There, in the trunk, was a photo album—15 years of memories, his secret anniversary gift. The texts? Just a coworker helping him with the surprise. I felt so embarrassed, but also relieved. Have you ever let your doubts spiral out of control? How do you rebuild trust after crossing a line like this? Please tell me I’m not alone in this emotional mess! 🙃🤦‍♀️ #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalRollercoaster #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalRollercoaster #RomanticRelationships

My husband used his affair as an excuse to surprise me for our anniversary😳💔
BlazingBeacon

My wife made all the money we earned disappear 🤯💸

For the past year, I’ve been living in a fog of suspicion. My wife, who recently started working for a new company, gets paid by cheque. Yet, not a single cheque has ever shown up in our joint accounts. Even when she sold some of our old stuff, that money—about $2,500—just vanished. Last year alone, she made close to $15,000, and I have no idea where it went. Our marriage has been rocky for four years, and this secretive behavior is driving me up the wall. I feel angry, confused, and honestly, a bit betrayed. Should I confront her? I’m worried she’ll explode if I bring it up. Have you ever been in a situation like this? How do you rebuild trust when you feel like your partner is hiding things? I just want some honest advice from someone who gets it. 😤😳🤔 #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #EmotionalSupport #RomanticRelationships

My wife made all the money we earned disappear 🤯💸
TwilightTarantula

My Husband and Our Best Friend’s Texts: I was really stimulated! 🤡🔥

I never thought I’d be the jealous wife, but here I am, spiraling. My husband (26M) and our best friend (28F) have always been close, but I recently stumbled on their texts—and wow, I wish I hadn’t. They call each other “mommy” and “daddy,” joke about threesomes, and toss around sexual innuendos like it’s nothing. I feel angry, confused, and honestly, a little betrayed. We’ve always been open, but this feels like a slap in the face. Am I overreacting? Should I confront him or just let it go? I need advice before I lose my sanity. Please, tell me I’m not crazy for feeling this way! 😤🤯🙃 #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #EmotionalRollercoaster #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships

My Husband and Our Best Friend’s Texts: I was really stimulated! 🤡🔥
CosmosCrafter

Is My Husband’s Online Affair Still Cheating? 🤡💔

After 19 years together and two teens, I never thought I’d be here. My 37-year-old husband has been having an emotional (and maybe more?) affair with a 20-year-old girl he swears he’s never met. But I’ve seen their messages—"I love you," late-night FaceTimes, and even a photo of me in lingerie sent to her to make her jealous. The final straw? I caught a $2,000 transfer from him to her. Are they planning to finally meet? I’ve spent almost a year waiting for him to choose me, but every promise is a lie. I’ve crossed lines, checked his phone, and now I’m stuck between anger, heartbreak, and confusion. Is this cheating? Is it time to sell the house and call a lawyer, or is there any way back from this? Honestly, I feel lost. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? I need real advice, not just sympathy. 🤦‍♀️🤬🤷‍♀️ #TrustIssues #MarriageStruggles #Infidelity #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalAffair #RomanticRelationships

Is My Husband’s Online Affair Still Cheating? 🤡💔
EtherealEmber

My Husband’s “Bedtime Routine” Is Driving Me Crazy! 😡

Every night, I read a book and tuck our 4- and 5-year-olds into bed, hoping for sweet dreams. But my husband? He takes them into a pitch-dark room and lets them watch short video on his phone until they pass out. When I asked if we could at least set a time limit, he snapped, “It’s my phone. My bedtime routine. You have no right to decide.” Is this really how things go in American families? Am I overreacting, or is it weird for little kids to fall asleep to glowing screens in the dark? I’m honestly furious and confused. How do you handle bedtime disagreements like this? Help me out before I lose my mind! 🤯😤 #ParentingConflicts #ScreenTimeDebate #MarriageStruggles #BedtimeBattles #RomanticRelationships

My Husband’s “Bedtime Routine” Is Driving Me Crazy! 😡
VortexVisionary

In my husband's eyes: I am a robot. I need to go to work, but I don't need to get paid.😡

Imagine working every day in your husband's business, crunching numbers, handling accounts, and yet, not seeing a single dollar in your own name. That's my reality. I'm 30, a mom of two little ones, and my 39-year-old husband insists I don't need to earn my own money. Instead, he gives me a 'living allowance'—just enough for basics, never enough for anything I actually want. If I want something extra, I have to send him my Amazon wish list like a kid asking for toys. He doesn't lift a finger at home, either. All the housework and childcare? That's on me. I feel trapped and powerless, like my own wants and needs don't matter. Is this normal? How do I get my own financial freedom without blowing up my family? Please, tell me I'm not alone in this! 😤😭 #FinancialIndependence #MarriageStruggles #WomenEmpowerment #FamilyConflict #RomanticRelationships

In my husband's eyes: I am a robot. I need to go to work, but I don't need to get paid.😡
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