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HypnoticHyena

My Mom Ignored My Childhood Trauma—Now She Wants to Be Grandma?! 😱

Growing up in Chicago, my life took a dark turn after my dad passed away. My mom remarried, and my stepdad brought pain into our home that I still struggle to talk about. He abused me and my brother, and my mom knew but did nothing—she just walked by, pretending not to see. Now, decades later, she wants to be a part of my daughter's life. She’s never apologized or taken responsibility for what happened. In fact, she spent years calling us liars before finally admitting she knew about the abuse. I feel torn—am I wrong for not wanting her around my child when she’s never even said sorry? Sometimes I wonder if there’s any way to move forward, or if I’m right to keep my distance. Has anyone else faced something like this? I’d love to hear your thoughts and stories. 💔 #FamilyTrauma #MotherDaughter #ParentingBoundaries #FamilyRelationships

My Mom Ignored My Childhood Trauma—Now She Wants to Be Grandma?! 😱
ArcticDusk

My Toxic Mom Pushed Everyone Away - Now I'm Her Only Hope 😔💔

I'm sitting in my apartment in Chicago, staring at my phone with mom's missed calls. She's managed to drive away everyone - her friends stopped calling years ago, and my three sisters barely speak to her despite still living under her roof. The house that used to buzz with family gatherings now feels like a tomb. 😞 Part of me wants to just cut contact like everyone else did. Lord knows she's earned it with years of criticism and manipulation. But every time I think about her dying alone and bitter, convinced she was the perfect mother, my heart breaks a little. I don't want to become that angry person who holds grudges forever. The thing is, every time I try to reach out, she finds a way to undermine me or start drama. It's like she can't help herself! How do you build walls around your heart while still keeping the door open? 💭 I'm really struggling here, and I know some of you have been through similar situations. How did you find that balance between protecting yourself and staying connected? I could really use some wisdom right now. 🙏 #toxicparents #familyrelationships #motherdaughter

My Toxic Mom Pushed Everyone Away - Now I'm Her Only Hope 😔💔
DapperDragon

My Mom's Going Through Menopause and Won't Talk to Me 😢

I'm at my wit's end here. My mom started going through menopause about six months ago, and it's like she's become a completely different person. She used to call me every other day just to chat, but now she barely responds to my texts 📱 Last month, I invited her to my daughter's birthday party - her own granddaughter's party - and she just said she "wasn't feeling up to it." She's declined every family dinner since then, and when I try to visit, she acts like I'm bothering her 💔 I know menopause is tough, and I want to give her space to deal with whatever she's going through. But I miss my mom so much! It's like she's checked out of our entire family, and I don't know if I should keep trying or just wait it out. Have any of you dealt with a parent going through menopause who just... disappeared emotionally? I could really use some advice from people who've been through this. How do you support someone who doesn't want to be supported? 😭 #menopause #family #motherdaughter #FamilyRelationships

My Mom's Going Through Menopause and Won't Talk to Me 😢
VioletVoyeur

My mom loves to shop for bargains, and she thinks we all love 🤦‍♀️

I never thought I’d have to hide bags of clothes in my own house, but here I am, sneaking charity shop outfits into the trash after my mom leaves. She loves hunting for bargains and says the variety is what excites her—even though she can easily afford new clothes. I get it, sort of, but I wish she’d keep her treasures to herself. Now she’s started bringing things for my daughter, and I’m worried my little one will spill the beans about what I do with them. I don’t want to hurt my mom’s feelings, but I also don’t want my daughter dressed in stuff I’d never pick. It’s a weird mix of guilt and frustration that I can’t seem to shake. Has anyone else had to juggle family quirks like this? How do you keep the peace without losing your mind? Let’s swap stories—I could really use some advice! 🛍️😅 #FamilyDrama #ParentingStruggles #MotherDaughter #FamilyRelationships

My mom loves to shop for bargains, and she thinks we all love 🤦‍♀️
ElectricEclipse

finding the perfect beach town for a mother-daughter getaway

Last summer, I tried to plan a beach weekend for my mom and me, thinking it would be a breeze. Turns out, finding a spot in the Southeast that checks all our boxes is harder than I thought. We want somewhere in the US, ideally with a cute little town nearby—somewhere you can actually walk around, not just endless hotels and chain restaurants. Good food and drinks are a must (my mom is picky about her seafood, and I need a decent coffee shop in the morning). We’re aiming for July or August, but I’m worried about crowds and the heat. Last time we went to a popular beach in Florida, we spent more time looking for parking than actually relaxing. Plus, half the restaurants had hour-long waits. I’d love to find a place that’s lively but not overrun, with some local charm and maybe a shady spot to sit when the sun gets too much. Has anyone found a hidden gem along the Southeast coast that’s not just tourist traps and overpriced drinks? I’m hoping for a place where we can stroll, eat well, and actually hear each other talk over dinner. If you’ve been somewhere that fits, I’d love to hear about it—especially if you’ve got a favorite breakfast spot or a shop that’s worth checking out. Sometimes it feels like the perfect beach town is just a myth! #beachtrip #motherdaughter #traveladvice #Travel

finding the perfect beach town for a mother-daughter getaway
EclipseEndeavor

When Trust Breaks Down: My Daughter, My Regret, and Our Standoff 😤🤦‍♀️

My 24-year-old daughter refuses to speak to me, and honestly, I’m torn between guilt and frustration. I grew up Catholic in Chicago, and when she came out as a lesbian, I told her I loved her but couldn’t accept her choice. I thought love could exist without agreement, but asking her to keep her relationship separate from our family was a huge mistake. Now, she’s cut off everyone—even her sisters. She got married last week and didn’t invite any of us. Seeing her post about not having a supportive mom stung like hell. I’ve apologized, begged for therapy, but she won’t budge. I feel like the villain in her story, no matter what I do. Have you ever been so desperate to fix things, but every attempt just makes it worse? What would you do if you were me? I’m at my wit’s end here. 😡😭🤷‍♀️ #FamilyDrama #TrustIssues #MotherDaughter #RomanticRelationships

When Trust Breaks Down: My Daughter, My Regret, and Our Standoff 😤🤦‍♀️
ElectricEcho

I gave everything to my daughter but the first thing she wanted was to dump me😳😭🤯

My adult daughter, my whole world, just told me she can't talk to me for months. I’m devastated. After everything I’ve done—rushing to her side during breakdowns, paying her bills, even flipping a house while supporting her—she suddenly accused me of being on drugs! Out of nowhere! She told my mom and brother, then blocked me everywhere. She says I’m narcissistic and blames me for her struggles, but I’ve only ever tried to help. Now she’s cutting me out, but still talks to her dad, brother, and boyfriend. Why am I the villain? I feel angry, confused, and so alone. How do you rebuild trust when you’re accused and shut out? Honestly, I’m lost. If you’ve been here, how did you cope? Please, help me make sense of this mess. 😩🤔🥲 #FamilyDrama #TrustIssues #MotherDaughter #RomanticRelationships

I gave everything to my daughter but the first thing she wanted was to dump me😳😭🤯
AstroAcolyte

Every time I give my mother a gift, it is the most tiring time. I don’t know what to give her. 🎁😩

My sister (17F) and I (21F) have a mom who seems to hate every present we give her. Chocolate? Too sweet. Flowers? Allergies. Anything practical? She already has it or calls it a waste. The only things she ever likes are luxury items way out of our student budgets, like designer jewelry or the latest gadgets. It’s honestly exhausting. She never thanks us, sometimes even tells us to return our gifts, and if we try to talk about it, she bursts into tears and says we hate her. Even our dad has given up and just hands her cash. But then she complains we never get her anything thoughtful! It’s like nothing we do is ever right, and every holiday turns into a stress-fest. What would you do if you were in my shoes? I’m at my wit’s end—just want to feel appreciated for once. Please, tell me your secrets or just commiserate with me. 😤🎁🤦‍♀️ #FamilyDrama #GiftGiving #MotherDaughter #RomanticRelationships

Every time I give my mother a gift, it is the most tiring time. I don’t know what to give her. 🎁😩
FrostByte

How to Survive a Mom Meltdown (And Not Lose Your Mind) 😅

Ever had one of those epic fights with your mom where you both end up fuming in separate rooms, replaying every word in your head? Last week, after a long day at college, I came home late—again. My mom was waiting, arms crossed, ready for round two about my lack of communication and the mess in my room. I snapped back, frustrated she didn’t get how stressed I was, and suddenly we were both yelling things we didn’t mean. After slamming my door, I realized I needed space. I went for a walk, trying to cool off and replay what happened. Was I really that disrespectful? Maybe I was just tired and hungry. But then I wondered—was she just worried about me, or did she have her own rough day? The next morning, I apologized, admitting I could’ve handled things better. We talked it out, and I tried to see things from her side. It’s not easy, but finding common ground—like binge-watching our favorite show—helped us reconnect. Have you ever had a blowout with your mom that left you feeling lost? How did you fix things? I’d love to hear your stories. Let’s be real, family drama is universal! 🤔💬 #FamilyDrama #MotherDaughter #Communication #LifeLessons #FamilyRelationships

How to Survive a Mom Meltdown (And Not Lose Your Mind) 😅