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Should Love or Ambition Decide Where We Live Together?

So here’s my dilemma: I’m 21, just finished undergrad, and dreaming of moving in with my boyfriend after graduation. I want us to chase our master's degrees together, maybe even build a new life side by side. But he’s got his heart set on studying in the same country as his brother, where his future is practically guaranteed. I’d follow him in a heartbeat, but my grades just won’t get me into that college. The thought of a long-distance relationship makes my stomach drop—honestly, it’s the last thing I want. But how can I ask him to give up his dream for me? I can’t be the reason he compromises on his education. So, what’s the move here? Do I risk my heart or my ambition? Sometimes, I wish love and career could just agree for once. 😅💔 #relationshipdilemma #careerchoices #movingtogether #JobCareer