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sgarcia

My daughter punched a bully and I refuse to make her apologize 😡

My daughter punched a bully in the face at school today. Honestly, my first reaction was probably not what the school expects from a parent. Now, her teacher made writing an apology letter her homework assignment, and I am absolutely fuming about it. Here's the thing: this bully, "Joe," has been making my daughter's life miserable. The teachers know about it, the principal knows about it, and they have done absolutely nothing to stop it. They just let this kid torment others. So, am I wrong for telling the teacher my daughter isn't doing it? Because if she writes anything, it's going to be something like this: "I am sorry I am in a class where the teacher teaches children to be victims. I am sorry that I go to a school that actively promotes bullying by punishing kids who defend themselves. I am not sorry for what I did to Joe. If there's a next time, it will be a lot more than a single punch." I raised my daughter to stand up for herself. This whole situation is just disgusting. I am so tired of schools punishing victims instead of dealing with the actual problem. What would you do in my shoes? #BullyingPrevention #Parenting #NoApologyNeeded #StandUpForYourself #FamilyStories #Parenting #FamilyRelationships

My daughter punched a bully and I refuse to make her apologize 😡
sgarcia

A Dad Jumped Over A Pool Fence With A Broken Arm To Save His Child

The memory is so clear it still gives me a chill. I was maybe 5 or 6, a little kid without my floaties, and one second I was there, the next I was in the water. My dad was sitting in his chair a dozen yards away. He had a cast on his arm from a fall and fractured ribs that made every movement a jolt of pain. He was even on pain meds. But he saw it all happen. He shot out of his seat. Flew down the back porch stairs in three bounds. And with a shattered arm and broken ribs he vaulted the pool fence in a single leap. The other adults at the party barely had time to turn their heads before he was already in the water and had me in his arms. He saved my life and he did it in a blaze of pure adrenaline. If that is not what a hero looks like, I do not know what is. #FamilyStories #FamilyRelationships #FamilyFirst #HeroDad #Parenting #TrueStory #ChildhoodMemories #SuperDad #Fatherhood #ParentalLove #LifeLesson #Family

A Dad Jumped Over A Pool Fence With A Broken Arm To Save His Child
sgarcia

My daughter's brutal honesty got me called to school again and again

My daughter has always been super witty and sarcastic. She's the kind of person who just tells it like it is, which was a huge hit with her teachers in Germany. They'd always stop me to tell me the funny things she said. But here in the U.S. school system, it caused some problems. When she was seven, I got a call because she made a "special" Valentine's Day card for a boy. Everyone was supposed to give out generic cards, but hers had a custom poem: "Roses are red, violets are blue. You pick your nose, you know you do." That was just the start. When she was nine, her teacher assigned them to write about living in 1492. My daughter listed all the expected stuff -- no electricity, no video games, no cars. Then she ended her paper with, "And if I lived in 1492, I would be dead now." I was eight months pregnant, and the school made me come in because of that last line. I walked into a room with the principal, vice principal, and a counselor, all freaking out. They went on and on about what a "problem" this was. Finally, I got to speak. My first question was, "Are you people absolutely crazy?" I pointed out that what my daughter wrote was simply true. If she had been alive in 1492, she would, in fact, be dead by now. I told them I was tired of their nonsense and to stop dragging my very pregnant self to school every week over some silly thing. I even threatened to go to the school board and town council, since we lived in a small town. Guess what? They stopped calling me to the school. My daughter is growing up now, and she's even more outspoken and witty than ever. I love her nature and would never try to change it. #FamilyStories #FamilyRelationships #ProudOfYou #SchoolStories #Throwback #FunnyKidSayings #TruthTeller #ParentingJourney #Parenting

My daughter's brutal honesty got me called to school again and again
Ernest Morris

Why Do I Get Side-Eye And Sighs Just Because I Love Spending Time With My Kids?

I am a dad in my late 30s with two amazing kids. I used to be really into sports and classic movies, but honestly, I do not watch them as much anymore. And you know what? I am totally fine with that because family bike rides, movie nights, and cooking together have taken their place. I love it. But for some reason, I get so much grief from older guys, even my father-in-law. They will ask me, "Don't you love baseball anymore?" Of course, I do, but not enough to ignore my family for hours every week. I catch my NFL team on Sundays when I can, but that is about it. This is just the stage I am at in life, and I am good with it. Does anyone else deal with this kind of attitude from older generations? I have no idea how they managed to go to the bar with friends all the time unless their wives were just completely fed up with them. It makes me wonder if I am the only one who prioritizes family time like this. 😑 #DadLife #Parenting #FamilyTime #FamilyRelationships #Family #FamilyStories #GenerationalDifferences #ModernDad #WorkLifeBalance

Why Do I Get Side-Eye And Sighs Just Because I Love Spending Time With My Kids?
CaffeineCrafter

One Year of Wonder: Celebrating Her First Birthday

How is it possible that my little girl is already turning one? It feels like just yesterday I was holding her for the first time, marveling at her tiny fingers and soft little sighs. This year has been a whirlwind of late-night cuddles, first giggles, and endless learning—for both of us. Watching her curiosity bloom and her personality shine has been the greatest adventure of my life. As we celebrate her first birthday with cupcakes and sparkles, I can’t help but feel grateful for every moment, even the sleepless ones. Time really does fly when your heart is this full. Have you experienced a milestone that made you stop and reflect? Share your stories below! #FirstBirthday #ParenthoodJourney #FamilyMilestones #Parenting

One Year of Wonder: Celebrating Her First Birthday
Marcia Flores

My 14-year-old thinks he’ll go pro in CS2... meanwhile he’s skipping school

I’m genuinely at my wit’s end. My 14-year-old son is absolutely hooked on CS2. He talks non-stop about “grinding Faceit to get noticed,” watches tier 1 matches every night, and genuinely believes he’ll make it as a pro someday. I love that he has passion, but I also know he’s, well... average. It’s painfully clear. Problem is, he won’t hear it. He’s started skipping homework, lying about assignments, and even cutting class just to play or watch streams. I’ve tried to limit screen time, even had long heart-to-hearts about backup plans, college, real life. He just shuts down. Anyone else dealing with this? How do you keep a kid’s dream alive without letting them totally derail their life? #Parenting #CS2 #TeenLife #Games #RealTalk

My 14-year-old thinks he’ll go pro in CS2... meanwhile he’s skipping school
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